My grandpa died about 3 years ago, my grandma died in 1989. He was always very controlling with money, they had a love hate relationship. When she was alive, she talked about getting a divorce, I believe she actually saw an attorney at one point. She always thought that he would weasel and hide money so he wouldn't have to support her. After all this, he loved her deeply...

So, the other night I dream t that we were at their house. I was yelling at him that I was going to get my grandmother the best attorney out there and take him for everything. I was yelling very mean things at him. At one point, I was swinging a weed wacker at him, not running, just hitting him with it. I also yelled at him for "under paying" me for yard work I had done for him.

I actually had a very good relationship with my grandpa and have great memories with him. When I woke up, it had really bothered me to the point of tears, all day. I just couldn't get it out of my head.

I would love some answers..... Thanks!

Perhaps, now that he has been gone for a while you are having a less rosy-colored view of him and maybe thinking that you grandma could have been right about some things.

This could also have to do with the idea of selfishness - unconsciously, you might consider dying (his death or your grandma's death) to be a selfish act because the person suddenly leaves you and doesn't give you a chance to say things you wanted to say to them.

"After all this, he loved her dearly". - It's interesting that, consciously at least, you automatically take your grandpa's side in this, when it was his word against hers. Maybe this dream is trying to tell you that you sometimes ignore things that you don't want to think about. (Not necessarily about your grandma and grandpa, but in general.)