I've had dreams my entire life about a symbol...it looks vaguely like a cursive Z, that's the best way I can describe it.​

Every time it appears, it's in a pendant, or jewelry of some sort.

The most vivid one I remember was me, I suppose, although slightly different, in a black and blue corseted Victorian dress, and I was with who I gather was a female relative, and a man whom I presume to be a lover.
We were in a cemetery on a picnic...sitting about in a small clearing under a shade tree.
I was wearing a necklace/choker with the pendant on it...but it came loose, and it fell in the folds of my dress. I kept moving the fabric about, but kept losing it - I'd see a glint of the bronze-ish silver and grab for it and it wasn't there...but the man I was with reached his hand out and grabbed it, no problem. He handed it to me and gave me a kiss on the lips and continued what he was talking about.​

This symbol has appeared in so many dreams, for so many years...but I've never been able to find it.

It looks almost alchemist in nature...I'm not sure.

BUT THE REALLY WEIRD PART IS:

(Brief background: I met a man online, and went to Canada - I'm from Ohio - to see him for a month.)​

While we were laying in bed, we were talking about anything and everything, and we came to our dreams...he described a dream in which he was presumably an Egyptian metalworker, and he was creating jewelry for a pharaoh or some type of royalty.
I asked him what it looked like...and he perfectly described what I have been dreaming about for years.
My heart soared and fluttered and I thought I was going to cry with astonishment...
I've never believed in soul mates, but now...well, just maybe.

The point is, now we're BOTH on a quest for this symbol, what it means, if anyone else has seen it. ​

Can you draw a picture of it and post it? Maybe it's an archaic symbol that you have both seen somewhere before.

Since you both seem to have a lot in common in waking life, it makes sense that you would have both been looking in the same place and seen the same symbol.

It looks sort of like the photo I attached, though not exact, as it's hard to draw what it truly looks like.
...but it's always more rudimentary, and it's always set into the pendant with a background that looks...busy, I guess? It's usually either little symbols or vines or something.


(Sorry for the most basic sketch on the planet. lol.)

That's interesting.

I don't think I've ever seen anything l like that before.

The closest I could find was the letter "gwo" in the Cherokee alphabet, but it isn't the same.

It could just be a fancy letter "z", though.

If you are soul mates, you will know, anyway, regardless of the dream.