Not sure if this is meaningful or not. Night before last, my husband had a dream where I was, uh-hum, making love to him, and then went all demonic on him. I got right up in his face and had the whole glowy eyes and deep voice thing going on, and it scared him so much that he jumped up in bed and grabbed my arm, calling my name. Found out today that a co-worker had a dream where I was with my husband, but it wasn't him, and I had walked in looking half beat to death. I should mention that hubby and me have an outstanding relationship. I don't know, thought it was odd and that I would share. Maybe it's a karmic thing. Seeing as how I myself didn't have these dreams I'm not sure if it means anything. Guess it's just the oddness of two people dreaming of me "in peril" in a sense. thoughts?
Maybe there has been a change in you that your husband and coworker have both noticed, but you haven't realised it yourself.
I certanly wouldn't think that other people's dreams have a reflection on you, but would suggest that the dreams are concerning themselves. Often other people in dreams don't necessarily represent the people themselves, but rather different aspects of your self that your brain sees as similar to the person in the dream. Rather than just creating a bunch of disembodied voices in your head, your subconscious, dreaming mind, will use images of people you know to speak to you - sometimes using a particular person for a particular affect, depending on your perception of that person's personality in waking life. I can't help thinking as I write that the above might sound like total gibberish, but I hope it makes sense.