Last night I had a dream and it has been running through my miind and I can remember most of it and this never happens, so Im guessing there is some sort of message I should be getting and I am not.

It was my wedding day it started me pulling into my grandmothers house with several other cars. Then it went to me inside looking out at all the men getting there pictures taken and I had said about the man I was to marry oh look he showed up! I saw one of the pictures and it was a mutaul friend of ours close in front with sunglasses on and with my "soon to be husband" in back sorta blurry, the photograph was black and white. I was dressed in my wedding dress and I remember feeling utterly gorgeous, in real life I am not that confident of a person, as I dont think I am ugly but Im not over confindent in my self, if this is relavant to how I felt in the dream. Me and some bridesmaids were going through a big pile of gifts trying to get as many opened as possible before the ceremony. My grandmother came into the room and needed help with finding the correct jewelery then walked out. I looked down and told my frined I wanted to open my gram's gift before anything else, there was a big pile in pink paper all stacked up and one big one in shiny blue and silver star like paper. I opened the little one first and it was a bunch of jewelry that was beautiful which I said in the dream wear this, it's perfect!

THen it cuts to the actual ceremony where my soon to be and I stood in front and someone announced so and so will not be getting married today also they were not our names but I knew it was us. So I ran out of there through mud dirt you name it I was running as fast as I could crying screaming, my friends which seemed like a large crowd following, running after me. I ran into the banquet hall and ran across the floor kicking off my heels and falling to the ground screaming. I looked up and noticed there were bee hives all over as decorations. I went to touch one but noticed there were bees in them so I walked away.

It then cuts to me walking outside and someone announcing the party is being moved to a friends house our mutual friends house as mentioned above because the hall was closing. I walked up and saw the man I was to marry. He grabbed my hand and said he just couldnt do it he didnt want to get married in front of all these people but always wanted to be with me, he was holding my hand very tight, fingers intertwined and his hands were very soft. There was also a brief moment when someone hit a baseball pretty far not sure why that was randomly in there.

Then it cuts to the banquet hall and we DID get married and this was the reception. There was dancing down a line but it seemed to be me going throught the line only, drinking, a friend of mine playing the saxophone, who doesnt even play an instrument. Just a really fun all out celebration for us both. We then were taken to a room for our big wedding gift and it was our first mailbox with the first batch of mail coming to us as a couple. We were both excited to see our frist breakfast lunch and dinner stored and the gift was something really big that we were both excited for but it was never revealed.

Then it cuts to me in the hotel lobby with all my friends and he calls, he said he was on his way back but he really needed a lot of convincning on my end to get him back there because he was closer to home. I gave him directions to the hotel and told him the number of the hotel was 11 the road started with the letter C, that is all I remember. He stayed on the phone with me while driving back to me but I continued to say just call me when you are close I will go outside. Again our mutual friend was also sitting in the lobby with me telling me things to say to him on the phone, SO we finally hung up. I started dancing again with my friends in the hotel lobby because there was a DJ. I looked at my phone and he was calling he said he was stuck in mud and knew he should of changed to a specific tire to get back to me, he said he had to go around the mud and bridge but wuould get to me soon. This part of the dream we were calling each other by our real names and the way he said my name was his exact voice of how he says it to make me laugh.


Then I woke up...

Hi. Are you engaged in real life? Is the man you are marrying in the dream a person you know in real life?

Hi Marcia

No I am not engaged in real life and yes I know the man in the dream. He is an on and off again friend.

I think the part of you feeling very confident and gorgeous in the dream when you wore your wedding dress is relevant.

All of the jewelry in the dream represents the good qualities aobut yourself that you keep hidden.

Your grandmother was the one who helped you to find the correct jewelry. Do you feel that your grandmother understands you better tahn other people?

The part where it is announced that you will not be getting married has to do with your self-confidence and how you feel people behave toward you- that you feel that you can't get things to work out the way you want them to.

About the bees - bee hives contain something valuable (honey) but the bees can sting you so your walking away without touching the beehive can have to with your being reluctant or not being able to appreciate your inner gifts (the jewelry in the other part of the dream).

I think the part about the man you were to marry saying he wants to be with you but not be married in front of all those people could have to do with you feeling that he understands you in a way that other people do not. The fact that he said your real name in the way that he says it to make you laugh emphasizes this.

Do you feel more confident about yourself and generally better about yourself when you are with him?

I guess I do feel generally more happy when I am with him. We currently are on no speaking terms because of something he heard about me that is not true so in many ways Im scared he wont come back or listen to me. So I see how this dream is making sense. Thank you.

I think the dream is telling you that he is an important person in your life so it would be a good idea to try to work things out with him.