So I'm engaged to the (for me) most perfect guy ever. I love him to death and want nothing more than for this whole thing to work out. Background on this relationship/him/me that might have something to do with the dreams...
I'm 17. He's 22. He's in the Marine Corps so I hardly see him. He's been married once before, and engaged another. (Hey, 3rd times a charm, right?) We have had issues in our relationship before but things have been great for a long time now. Issues from before? First, we've both cheated. Once for each of us, beginning of the relationship, he was gone, I didn't trust him so cheated on him, told him, so he did it back. Long time ago and we're way over that. Issue there? I didn't trust him. Trust.. hm.
Second. We broke up for a month and some girl who he's been friends with for a long time and liked him ALOT at this time and supposidly has ever since she started hanging out with him, started telling me all this stuff to make it seem like we broke up so he could be with her. Well, when nothing ever happened between them, and when he came home for Thanksgiving and spent the entire time with ME, and got back together with ME, makes ya wonder if maybe she was just trying to fuck things up worse by saying what she was. We're going to call this girl Melanie.
Another time, I got pissed off at him and he got so pissed off right back that he refused to talk to me for a week. This is actually the reason we ended up breaking up in my whole lil situation before hah. Why I was pissed? Because I was suddenly replaced as his number one myspace friend. MYSPACE. FRIEND SPOTS? stupid, I KNOW. but it was with his ex-wife. Yeah, I'm not sure I appreciated that too much!!!! But that's all changed since then too
Next issue. While things are going great in our relationship, some girl comes out of nowhere and starts to talk to him. This girl? Some chick who he's been friends with forever, dated once when he was like 12 or something, and hadn't seen or talked to in like 6 years. Yeah okay. She says she wants to be with him. And he starts to question whether or not he wants to be with me or her. Says that she found him and started talking to him for a reason. Everything happens for a reason. Sorry, but you were 12 when you "dated" her. And haven't talked to her in 6 years. People change in 6 years. Stop being a psyco and think normal. You've got me.
Things ended up blowing over with that, and obviously he made up his mind on who he wanted to be with. Well they stayed friends and a month or so ago, he was all upset because she decided she didn't want to talk to him or be friends with him anymore if he was going to be with me, because she was jealous. He decided, well if she can't deal with who he is, then whatever, right. Cause he's going to be with me. That's that. I don't know how many times we've gone through this with other girls wanting him and thinking they have a chance, and nothing has actually happened with one of them ONCE because he wants to be with ME.

Dream time: Last night I had the most awful dream ever. I got a text message from the girl who's liked him since forever ago, Melanie, which makes sence, because she constantly texts me. It was saying something about him and I being broke up. I was confused because I had just talked to him the night before and things were fine, we were still together. So she tells me to go to his myspace. Which I do, and notice that everything is different. Rather than pictures of me and him, he has pictures of his ex wife. He has her has his number one friend. He has something written on his about me section that says The only people I love are: her name, Tony, and like 2 other names that I don't remember. but not one of them was me. I was so pissed off. His song, was no longer the song he had on there for me. It was some Eminem song, which I know he would never listen to anyway. So he gets online and starts talking to me. Just like, Hey, what's up? Like nothing is wrong. But something is wrong. Because he and I are no longer together and for some reason he failed to tell ME anything about breaking up with me. And made me look stupid thinking we were still together for 2 days when we weren't. So I got pissed, I told him I hated him and was never going to talk to him again. And he got pissed, like I was wrong for doing that. I blocked him and deleted him off my MSN. Got rid of everything. All my emails, my box full of letters from him, the ring, then shit he's bought for me, everything. All 4-5,000 dollars worth of shit he's bought for me. Yet he continued to send me emails trying to be my friend and make things better. None of which I read, just deleted. He sat there and tried to make it out to be like I was the bad person in the whole situation. When he left me for his exwife and decided not to tell me that we broke up.

It's a horrible dream. But seems so real because everything that happened in that dream has pretty much happened in a way before. With his whole ex girlfriend of sooo long ago came along, there's a lot more to that. I sat there and fucking put up with it, waiting for him to make up his mind, and obviously got pissed off at him for the whole ordeal, yet he sat there and tried to turn it all around on me, making it out to be MY fault that we were fighting. Because I was being a selfish bitch? Not hardly.. I guess, the dream might explain itself because it's just stuff that's happened before, that I'm worried about happening again. Which I have no reason to worry about. Because I trust him. At least I think I do?

It's just, when I have dreams like this constantly, which I have before, just different situations, different girls, and not as bad.. I freak out and wonder what the hell is going to happen. Because I've had too many times where I'll dream something, then it will happen. I trust him fine, up until I have one of these dreams, then I start to wonder, because I know I've had dreams come true before. I'm just so paranoid right now. I have no reason not to trust him. But because of a dream I don't?? Should I be upset about this dream like I am? I mean does it really mean anything is going to happen? Or am I just paranoid over nothing?

Think its just all the stuff you mentioned replaying in your mind thats all ... I don't see any particular symbols that would say anything more than you worrying about where your relationship is going. You just need to relax and stop worrying so much about it. Que sera sera ...

Good luck!