Hello Everyone!
This is my first time posting a dream. It really freaked me out and i wanted some help. Should i post backstory of my life with it?

My dream started off with my mothers side of the family and my immediate family living in the same house. We all had different rooms. My ex also has a room there. He comes over to my room and ask if i wanted to spend the day with him. Just me him and our son. I say ok. In my dream I know he has a girlfriend, but how hes acting makes me think they are over. so that is why i agreed. We spend the day together and when we get back to the house, My whole family is on the porch watching my mother leave for a date. Her date has a beat up cadillac and everyone is making comments about how she always finds guys with beat up cars.
When we get in the house we go to my bed and he starts talking about how much fun he had then about how his girlfriend is coming over. I get angry and we start physically fighting. and it seems like the longest fight ever. He walks away and starts getting ready for the date he is going to take her on. While he is getting dressed i am arguing with him asking him why he lied to me. And he says he doesn't know. He just felt like it.
His girlfriend comes over and I tell her everything that happened that day. She gets mad and chases him. Then the police show up and she is told to leave. The whole time this is happening I am completely calm and laughing. As she is leaving I give her my phone number. Then I go to my room. In my room I find his phone. and I go through all of their text messages and see that he is looking to buy her an engagement ring, she sent him pics from when she went to London last summer...just really random text.
After I go through his phone. A random family comes in my room and takes an empty action figure package from the Avengers movie. They are suddenly at the foot of my bed hanging on a rack. The family is dressed as super heroes with capes and everything. Behind them I can see a huge battle with laser going off and explosions. they walk back into the battle and close the door then they are gone.

Are you in a relationship with anyone now? The part with our mothers side of the family and your immediate family living together makes me think of the idea of "one big happy family". Maybe part of you is regretting that both your son's parents (you and your ex) aren't together for him.

Maybe people making comments about your mother's beat up cars could have to do with making poor choices in life. A car can symbol your journey in life, so this could be about not being prepared to get where you want to go. On the other hand, if the car looks beat up, but it runs fine, the dream could have to do with not caring about appearances or what other people think.

Do any of the parts about you and your ex fighting reflect things that really happened in your relationship?

The part about the superheroes fighting sounds like it has to do with some a big emotional conflict that you are experiencing. Or you could feel that you could are acting like a superhero (taking on a challenging role in life) or you wish some "hero" would come along and fix everything in your life.

Thank You so much for your response!!

I am currently in another relationship. It is with someone that I have been friends with for years.

The big happy family you mentioned makes sense. I have been struggling lately with how to make my son understand that his father and I aren't going to be together, And how I'm going to explain to him that when he eventually has brothers and sister, they wont look like him. I don't want him to feel out of place.

I feel that what you said about the cars could go either way. I have made some big life changes in the past 3 months, promotion at work, moving into a new home and finally breaking away from my ex. Iv'e felt very overwhelmed and unsure of how to handle all of this.
On the other side, my current boyfriend and I are looked at awkwardly when we go out together and its something I'm starting to notice more and more.

All of the parts about my ex actually happened in real life in one form or another. He was emotionally abusive. cheated on me multiple times. lied constantly. left me when I got pregnant and wouldn't have an abortion. And then lied to me when he started seeing someone else while trying to get back to me. Also, physically abusive at time.

Since my current boyfriend has been there with me through all of this. He is the one that finally got me to pull away and see that what i was going through wasn't worth it. Or it could be my new challenges at work and being a single mom.