Okay I had multiple disconnected dreams last night. The first one really freaked me out. This is how it went: I was laying in bed next to my boyfriend and his eyes turned black and he started talking to me in the deep scary voice. I don't remember what he was saying, just that I wanted him to stop! It was like he was possessed. So I got up to turn the lights on and they wouldn't turn on. My boyfriend automatically switched from being some possessed demon into my knight in shining armor. He picked me up and carried me in his arms to the kitchen. Where I again tried to turn the light on, but they wouldn't turn on. He started lighting some candles and I picked up one of the candles that was un-lit and realized I had no way to light it. Then it lit by itself. I seen a light coming from the end of the hallway so I wanted to go there to that room. I drug my boyfriend behind me. As I got to the room, there was my son's father. Laying there in bed. I jumped in bed next to him as if I had forgotten about my current boyfriend. And then I tried to talk to my son's father but he remained asleep. I got up out of the bed and started making excuses to my current boyfriend why I would do that. I laid down on the floor next to my boyfriend to go to sleep, all the while thinking that I wish I was really in bed with my son's father.
The next dream: All I remember from this one is that there was some sort of party going on and everyone was outside. I stayed inside in my room. I wasn't alone though. I was with an old child-hood friend I know, but I can't remember who it was now. I kept telling the friend that I wanted to stay inside but they could go out to the party and have a good time. They wanted to stay with me. I soon found out that my son's father was going to be coming to the party so I made a dash for the bathroom, my friend trailing behind. I wanted to make myself look nice for him. I had to travel down some escalators to get to the bathroom. The bathroom then was like a public restroom, and I got a little pee on my pants because I couldn't hold it. Then I peed in the toilet.
And the last dream: I dreamed that I was laying in bed next to my boyfriend. I turned over to ask him if I told him about the dreams that I had. He got angry at me and yelled at me that yes I had told him everything about them. He was mad that I was dreaming about my son's father.

So ... It was all really weird to me... can someone please help me understand what all this could mean?

Do you see a dark side to your boyfriend that others can't see because he puts on charm when others are around? The dream about his having a scary voice and you looking for a light could be about this.