I was on a wooden bridge surrounded by mountains with a big group of people, some I knew and some I didn't, and I was looking for my friend Julie so I wouldn't have to be there by myself. I knew that we were at the bridge to go bridge jumping. I was near Andrew, a boy that I'm kind of dating, and said "JULIE! where'd you go?!" to which Andrew replied "Do you always need to be near someone? Is that how it's always going to be?" and i understood that he was saying that I'm clingy. So, I said no, kissed him, and walked away to do the bridge jump from a separate part of the bridge away from Julie, Andrew, and now my bestfriend Samantha, who had somehow shown up. As everyone was getting ready to jump I looked around to see the other side jump, but at the same time I missed when I was suppose to jump and looked down to see everyone else down there, yet fully dressed and on a concrete block that was directly under the bridge and surrounded by water. Determined to jump I got ready, but at the last second got scared and grabbed a rope that appeared out of nowhere and settled myself down into the rocks near the edge of the water. After that I got up and got back onto the bridge and was walking around when all of the sudden a pair of headphones came up from under the bridge and wrapped around me. I looked over the bridge to see my friend Kasey, who is dead, in a large group of people walking on the concrete below, and yelled his name excitedly, he smiled, laughed and said something i couldn't quite hear, and then as suddenly as he was there he was gone. I dropped to the ground and started to cry as soon as he was gone, screaming for my Samantha and I knew Andrew was behind me, but he didn't do anything to comfort me, and finally Samantha got to me and hugged me and just sat there on the bridge with me.
It sounds like this dream is about a decision you must make on your own or a difficulty in life that you must face on your own. The headphones wrapping around you could mean that you feel that you are getting two many conflicting messages from other people and it is tying you in a knot of confusion. How long ago did Kasey die? Was he the type of person that you could rely on for good advice.