I dreamed that i was in my room sleeping (again in the same place i am sleeping in reality) my mom and dad are in my roommates room, like it is their own room. My mom screams at someone to get the door, someone is knocking at it. I get up to go find out who would be knocking at our door in the middle of the night....I'm a little bit pissed off and about to kick some ass. I get up and my sister (also who does not live with me) is already answering the door. There is a guy at the door inviting my sister to go back out side where the party is. I get pissed off b/c there is a party going on outside my apartment by the pool. My sister seems like she doesn't want to go but seems peer-pressured into inviting the guy in. The guy starts calling my sister a slut...that is where i get ultimately pissed off and start cussing the guy out. I started calling him a cunt...which is not a word i ever use. I kicked him out. Then my dream shifts and i am in my bed again and instead of my boyfriend next to me (like reality) it is my sister and she is crying...i guess b/c they were calling her a slut. My dad tells my mom to come check up on us and make us go to sleep. I'm just telling my sister that it is okay to cry and my mom walks in (she is a skeleton though..but normally she is overweight) she says to me "why is it okay to cry?" I am shocked that she asked this of me and i am shocked by the way she looks. i have her sit down and i start telling her that she has a bad attitude and that she needs to have a better attitude. I am telling her over and over again "have a good attitude have a good attitude!" Then i tell her to take three deep breaths. I wake up saying this and I take the breaths too.
I know the dream sounds a little lame....but it scared me. what does it mean?

In the dream you take the role of the problem solver. You also take over the role of parent and adult with your mother. Interesting. Is it this way in reality?

actually yes

as strange as this sounds....i do feel like this dream could actually happen in reality. all except for my mom being a skeleton.