Here goes another one. Last night I dreamt that me and my ex husband and a couple (they are doctors I don't know if that matters) lived in a house together . Me and my ex weren't back together in the dream or anything. Anyway at one point I'm peeking through a door lock (like one of those old style ones that's a big hole) and I see this woman and my ex and her husband doing adult things. For some reason seeing that pisses me off (no clue why at that point. If the type of act matters let me know and I'll PM it to you). So I walk away irritated and go back to my room. Then it's like the next day and we are all in the kitchen I'm still a bit irritated. I'm getting chocolate chip cookies out of the cabinet and I turn to walk toward the table a cookie in my mouth. I get near the male doctor and then next thing I know it's all black and he's holding me up (like I passed out or something but I could hear everything going on around me and I can feel his arms around me). Apparently the hand with the cookies landed on the counter but there was the cookie that I was biting into still in my mouth. He tries to get it out and just as he does I come too and look into his eyes (don't remember the color or anything). He has this absolute panicked look on his face. And for some reason that makes me feel happy. Jump to another point and time (not too long after that incident like same day only a few hours later) I'm standing there with man and we aren't talking or anything just standing at the top of the steps (this part reminds me of how my grandmother's house is set up along with the kitchen) looking at each other smiling. Well the next thing I know his wife is saying something. I turn and look at her (and from what I can remember she's beautiful) and say to her something along the lines of "Well you screwed around first so we aren't worried" (I'm guessing she was saying something about divorcing him). Then just as I started to wake up I could feel his hand holding mine.

Any input would be appreciated.

How long ago did you divorce your ex?

What is the relationship like between the two of you now? How do you feel about him now?

Eating the chocolate chip cookie could have to do with needing emotional nourishment and pleasure.

The divorce was finalized in October. But I had left July 2009. The relationship between us is okay. We are friends (which is how it was for the last couple of years of the marriage. It was just there was expectations of intimacy). I feel about him is like a friend.

the part of the dream where you see your ex and the woman and her husband doing adult themes sounds like you feel like you are being left out of something. Maybe you feel like you want to feel closer to someone (not necessarily sexually, but to have someone you could be emotionally closer to and share your problems with.)

That could go with the idea of eating the cookie. Wanting something (someone) to make you feel satisfied (once again, not necessarily sexually) and happy.

The fact that they are doctors could also have to do with your wanting someone to take care of you, to have someone who will look after your needs.

Did you have happy memories of your grandmother when you are younger? I think of a grandmother as someone who spoils you and lets you have whatever you want (unlike a parent, who has to discipline you).

Yes. I have happy memories of my grandmother.

I recently lost a family member could that be what's brought on this type of dream? I wasn't really close to him though.

Are you in a relationship now? The death of a family member may have made you unconsciously worry about being alone and worrying about who would care for you if anything happened to you?

No I'm not in a relationship. My last relationship ended back in Sept.

Then my last answer makes sense. I think you are feeling like you want to be in a relationship with someone and feeling bad about not being in one. I think the dream is saying that you (or at least part of you) want the security of a relatioship.

Very true. Thank you.