I remember that I first joined this site because of a dream that really had me worried. After years of dreaming of a white wolf that is always teaching and helping me, I've learned to trust the wolves in my dreams. However, I had one that involved my cousin, who is very much like my brother on a short run. On seeing the wolf I welcomed it to me, but instead it went for my throat. I may have found a connection, and I need help to see whether it is valid. I've had a couple other dreams of betrayal from the wolves I trust. The one always present in the bad happenings is black with red eyes. The other day my cousin mentioned to me that he has been dreaming of a black wolf with red eyes that is a teacher to him, though in different ways than mine was to me. I'm beginning to wonder if perhaps the black wolf represents him, is that a possibility?
To me this is why i got to understand dreams through stuff like this and you may have cracked it. Both you and your may cousin have different or opposite outlooks on life (through learning, spiritual guidance) though similar in form. Don't be over wary your "wolf" can help you both.