I have premonition dreams thru out the yrs. it feels more like a curse then a gift. They are getting worse. when i have the premonitions its always about something bad gonna happen to someone I know. They have always came true!!
the latest one was a year ago. very detailed; it was bout my boyfriend. he his a marine been in for 16 yrs. in this premonition "J" gets deployed in the time of this deployment he is to be home in 6mths but in the 3rd-4th mth he goes to Afghanistan. in this prem dream i am also pregnant. at my 6th mth of pregnancy, something happens to "J" and his unit while they are in afghan.
they are traveling somewhere in 2 trucks. the 1st truck gets hit by a mortar or road side bomb and they died right away. the 2nd truck "J" is in. they get ambushed and take gun fire. the 2 people in the front die right away. "J" and the other guy get out of the truck and go for cover. as they are running for cover the both get shot the guy with "J" dies 15-20 mins later. "J" is barely holding on. the military tells me "J" is missing and can't find him. at this time reminder i am 6 mths pregnant. i end up going over there to afghan by myself to find "J" and when i finally find him he is dying. we have a few words and "J" dies in my arms.
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the thing is about this premonition is it happen a year ago. and now it is coming true!! "J" is deployed! i can't say on here where but right now it is not afghan.
I am pregnant i am 15 wks (3 1/2mths)
I got a call from him saying he just got informed he may have to go to afghan! the deployment place he is at was to be only 6mths deployment at this country i can not say where and come home in DEC.
but now if he gets deployed to afghan he will be there for over a year and will not be here for the birth of his 1st child.

if he goes to afghan i am terrified that the rest of the premonition will come true and i will lose him he will die. i am a mess and there is nothing i can do to stop this from happening. most of the premonition has already happen.
i dont know what the hell to do and if the premonition is telling me i am going to lose him.
all of the premonitions i have had in the past have happen. please if anyone has any info or insight on what to make of this is helpful. i refuse to to deal with the fact i am going to lose him this way.

Hi.

It makes sense that you would have dreamed about your boyfriend being deployed to Afghanistan since he is a marine and there is a lot of military activity going on in Afghanistan. You were probably worried about the possiblity of him being sent to Afghanistan when you had the dream.

It would also make sense for you to worry about him being killed because that is a risk of being in the military, and it would make sense for that worry to come out in your dreams.

You don’t know that the rest of your dream is going to come true. Even if you have had other dreams that came true, it doesn’t mean that this dream is going to come true.

Even if something bad does happen to him (I sincerely hope that doesn’t happen), your dreaming about it or not dreaming about it isn’t going to change it.


He is going to go whether you worry about it or not, and what is going to happen to him is going to happen to him whether you worry about it or not. Your worrying is not going to stop anything bad from happening.

What will stop him from being hurt or killed will be being a strong, intelligent marine surrounded by other strong, intelligent marines plus just being lucky.

Also, do you think that while he is there he will want you to be all worried and stressed out or to be happy?

I think it could be a good idea to find a group of partners or spouses of people in the military so you can share your worries and feelings with them. (Maybe another internet forum.)

You might also try to find ways to deal with stress, such as meditation.