I had a very strange dream again last night. My boyfriend has this ex that he says he doesn't care for anymore (they've been broken up for over a year), and I believe him, but it's hard for me to think that he cares about me the way he did for her when he had all these great experiences with her and has kept everything she ever got him (he keeps most of it put away, but still wears this watch, uses an engraved pocketknife, etc) and it REALLY bothers me. BUT, he has no idea that I found his little stash dedicated to probably the ugliest girl I have ever seen, but it was dusty, so clearly he hasnt looked at any of it in a loooong time. The only time I ever have these dreams is when I'm sleeping next to him. Last night's in particular was the strangest to date. He lived in a giant atrium built on a dock. And I yelled at him saying that it was too big to live in with just us and there and that he had way too much stuff and had to get rid of it. Plus were empty picture frames on the walls, and he had a room with all glass walls filled with pink flowers. Then somehow we were in some country in south america, he got drugged when we went out, and i had to carry him over my shoulder back to the high rise apartment he lived in a this point in the dream. Then, after getting him there, I found a bunch of HORRID dresses in his closet and freaked out and, once again, yelled at him for keeping things for no reason. I'm thinking it might be my mind telling me to tell him I found his stash, but I feel like there's a lot more to it than that. Help please!

I think the dream is about your concerns about your relationship and how our boyfriend really feels about you.

Logically, it doesn' t make sense that the place he lives in is too big and yet he has too much stuff - the bigger a place is, the more stuff you can put in it. So I think what you are saying is that his "heart" is too big - you can't understand how he can be in a relatinohsip with you and still feel sentimental about his ex or want to keep her things.

The empty picture frames could stand for the unknown - in your case, how your boyfriend really feels about his ex.

His getting drugged and you having to carry him could mean that you think he isn't thinking clealy and that you have to straighten things out.

Since you refer to his ex as "the ugliest girl you have ever seen", I think that the ugly dresses represent the thoughts about her that remain in her mind.