So let me start off by saying that I have been with my current boyfriend for 7 months, and I'm happy. But sometimes I dream of other guys. For instance the last 2 nights I've had dreams of this guy that dispatchers for the cab company that I use to get to work every morning. I've called in to make my time call for the last 9 months and I've never really said much more than hi and how are you. But all I have to say is this is Shana. And he knows my time call. Well the dreams I had were about him maybe having some sort of crush on me. I say this because he would write me little notes. One even said he loved me. My other dreams actually had 2 diff coworkers in them. I have not ever talked to one of the guys where as the other I've said hello to him. (in real life) Just wanted to know if anyone has any advice on what these could mean, especially the cab dispatcher one... Would greatly appreciate it.
Sounds like your unconscious is just playing out possibiliities in your mind - what it would be like if you were with the other guys instead of your boyfriend. This is totally normal. You could be married to someone for 50 years and it would be normal to dream about other men. It doesn't mean you want to have relationships with these men inwaking life.