I haven't seen this guy in 2 years. But I dream about him a lot.
Although he's the only guy I've ever sort of connected with on a mental level I know I don't miss him because he gets on my damn nerves.

When I think about him(not that I think about him a lot) I don't dream about him.
But when I'm not thinking about him I dream about him.

cant get away from him

It seems to me that you feel like you cant get away from him. you are either thinking about him a lot and annoyed by him or you are dreaming about him. has he had a major influence over your life that you feel you cant get rid of or away from?