I've recently been dreaming about my sons father alot! ... Here's two dreams that I would like to understand:

I was standing in the middle of a big backyard with him. There was a big wind coming... he stood over me and held me and I could see the wind just ripping all the trees out of the ground, but we for some reason remain untouched! ... Later on in the same dream he asked to use my cell phone and I said sure. My mom informed me that he used it to call his girlfriend that I had no idea he had. (He doesn't have one in real life, I don't think!) ... So I got reall y mad and went to yell at him, but the girl had already come to meet up with him. I was like "Why are you doing this? Why didn't you tell me? Why were you leading me on?" and that was the end of that one.

I was living in an apartment with a boyfriend. My son's father (we'll call him Joe) came to see me. He wanted me to go out with him. I left with him, right in front of my boyfriend in the dream. I knew I was hurting my boyfriend but I did it anyways because I just can never say no to Joe. We went out and had an amazing time just talking. He told me that he realized that I was the woman he wanted and I was always the only one for him. That he respected me for who I am. That he loved me. And I was happy.

What is your relationship with Joe like now? Do you wish you could get back together with him? Why aren't you together now?

yes, I wish we could get back together, and I think he does too. It's like I'm waiting on him though to make the next move.

In the first dream, it seems like you want things to have remained the same between you despite any problems you have had - the wind ripping the trees out of the ground could stand for emotional turmoil in your relationship.

I think when you are angry about the girlfriend in the dream you are angry at yourself and at him for letting your relationship end.

The second dream sounds like wish fulfillment.