Hello everyone I'm new to this forum...

I've been having some dreams that have really been throwing me for a loop. I have been in a relationship for about two months with this guy that I really like. Our relationship has been fantastic so far; he is extremely understanding, friendly, and loving. We have started building a great friendship in addition to just being boyfriend/girlfriend, and we really enjoy being around each other.

I suppose there have been some doubts during our relationship, but we always talk about everything in a calm and open way. He got out of a relationship (a REALLY long relationship) shortly before he started dating me. He said that he's moved on, and I believe him (He doesn't give any indication whatsoever that he still likes his ex). However, his ex (who got a new boyfriend before we started dating) makes me worried sometimes...she posts on his wall in facebook and I don't know if she's completely over him.

I just tell you the background to help you all interpret these strange dreams I've been having.

After spending a date night with my boyfriend, I have a lot of strange dreams about other guys. I dream that I'm dating other people: some guy from my class, a guy from high school, another one that I don't even really like, etc. This throws me for a loop because I'm happy in my relationship with my boyfriend and don't have feelings for any other guys. But in my dreams, I'm dating someone else, and it's someone different each time. And I feel confusion in my dreams, thinking, "Wasn't I dating someone else before?", referring to my present boyfriend. It's as if I know that I have some other kind of commitment with someone but I can't remember who the person is or what my relationship is with them. I don't feel happy in my dreams, but rather perplexed and confused, thinking, "I'm with this person....but wasn't I with someone else....am I dating someone else? I can't remember...don't I already have a boyfriend?"

Maybe this symbolizes perhaps uncertainty about the relationship, desiring to maintain a sense of independence....? I really have no idea because my dreams are very different than what I feel in real life. I don't know what my subconscious is trying to tell me!

Thank you all for helping me!
chica

The dream could mean that you are unsure about the relationship. However, it could just mean that you are curious about what it would be like to be wit different boyfriends, the same way that a woman who is happily married might fantasize about being with different men. It doesn't mean that you are unhappy with the relationship and want to end it.

The different boyfriends in your dream could also represent different aspects of your boyfriend's personality

Since you are worried about his ex not being over him, it's also possible that in your dream you are getting revenge on him by dating other guys. Consciously, you know that it's not his fault if his ex still cares for him and that he isn't interested in her, but unconsciously, you could still be feeling angry at him for that. Could you be, unconsciously, angry at him for letting her post on his Facebook wall?