Last night I had a dream that my two closest friends (Donut and Rae) and my boyfriend (Donnie) and I were all hanging out. We were at my house but as in all of my dreams it was bigger onthe inside than it should have been. We went outside, and my mom went into the garage. She came running out into the backyard with our old cat and her litter of kittens (We got rod of this cat awhile back but she did have kittens while we had her). We played with the kittens for awhile and suddenly were inside. We were all talking about who are best friends were. I asked my boyfriend if he had a friend he had had for years an was still close to. He said he did but hen I aske who it was he wouldn't say. I kept trying to ask him and ge still wouldn't say. I asked him why he wouldn't tell me and he said thinking of her turned him on and then rolled onto his stomach to hide the excitement. I got mad and kicked him and left the room. Eventually it was just him an I in a room and tried talking to him about it again. I told him I knew who it was, ( a girl named Chandler that he has always been a little overly fond of, even when I'm right in front of him) and he just shrugged like so. So I asked why he couldn't just tell me, and that I knew all the things they had done ( I had never really consdered the things i listed off in real life, but they are extremely viable). At this point Donut came into the room, and Donnie told me that we had just fallen apart. I tried to say something, but Donut kept talking over me and I couldn't talk to say anything. (In real life we have been falling apart but ive been feeling like the only one trying to pull it back together) and I just felt so broken. I woke up feeling hopeless about us, an wondering if maybe all those times Donnie and Chandler ad hung out without menthey really had done things. Please help, Im always having bad dreams about Donnie, Chandler and I... I want real answers...

There's a good chance that your dreams have more to do with your fears about something between Donnie and Chandler than anything actually happening between them.

You are worried about something going on between them and that you and Donnie will break up, so that's what you dream about.

You should ask yourself what is making you feel so insecure about your relationship.

If you aren't careful, your dream could become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Your dream makes you worry that there is something going on between Chandler and Donnie, which makes you act all jealous and possessive, which makes Donnie not want to be with you anymore.

Then again, I don't know any of you - maybe you do have a reason to be suspicious.

But you should base your decision on what you experience in waking life.