So for almost a year, I have gotten close with a girl where she says she doesn't like me, but everyone else says she does. We live nearby and I'm a junior and she's a freshman. We used to talk almost everyday. She gives signals that she does like me all the time. She had a boyfriend who made her mad alot, but she continued to stay with him b/c she loves him. I felt she treated others, especially her bf, better than me. I fell in love and b/c I was jealous, I tried to make her jealous. Now previously, I've told her how I have to defend her whenever my friends say something bad about her. So I told her that I don't know what to do because my friends don't want me involved with her. She got mad at me and we stopped talking. And while I was trying to send it someone else, I accidentally sent her a screenshot of our messages. I didn't do it to hurt her or lose her trust. I did it because I needed help as I was kind of confused on why she got mad in the first place. We talked at least once every month after that, where I mostly initiated conversations. Eventually we sort of became friends again and I told her how I feel about everything and how I tried to make her jealous. She told me she doesn't like me like that. I told her I accept that. We had a short convo, but she stopped responding. After a few more tries of trying to talk to her, I just stopped and realized I will never regain her trust.

So, throughout our friendship, I had weird dreams about her. Nothing too crazy, though.

One was where me, alot of people from my bus and some people from school were at a gas station in a downtown area. Soon enough, me and her were talking. I wasn't really into the conversation, but I was happy that we were talking. But she said something to one of her friends and I got mad so I walked away. As I got pretty far from them, I decided to turn around and go back. When I started walking back, I heard gunshots and I started running to the gas station. She was the only person on my mind as I was running. But then a guy I know at school had a gun and was running away from the gas station. As he got closer to me, he pointed the gun at me. I stopped, thinking he was going to shoot me, but he just started laughing and continued running. And then I started back running towards the gas station, but the dream ended so I never found out if she actually got shot.

The second dream was where I was walking down a hallway at school. All of a sudden, my friends and even strangers started coming up to me, telling me that she is pregnant. Then I went to lunch and more of my friends kept telling me she is pregnant. I acted as if I didn't care, but in my mind, I was angry that she was pregnant, possibly by her boyfriend.

Another dream I had was we were at school and we were leaving a room at the same time. Then she asked me why I don't talk to her anymore, which gained laughs from her friends.

Then I had a dream where she and I were laughing and talking in class. She was sitting close to me and leaning on me, basically flirtin.

I had a dream that she and I were texting and we were arguing because she was getting extremely angry and I didn't know why. I think she was jealous for some reason.

My friend later told me she dreamed that the girl and I were flirting in a store. We were rolling around in chairs and she kept trying to roll in between my legs. And we got kicked out the store. And then she told my friend she will date me in the summer. It's now the summer. I don't think about her that much anymore, except for a few nights when my emotions are at a high and I get the urge to try to talk to her again. But now I feel like the dreams are starting to re-occur.

I've now had a dream where many people from our school were at an amusement park. And I was about to walk past the girl, her sister, and their friends. She turned to me and said hey to me. I said hey back and she asked how I was doing. I told her good and all of a sudden, she acted annoyed with me. And she yelled a little bit, but then she just smiled at me. I just chose to walk away from her, not wanting to be anymore embarrassed in front of her friends. And then when I left, I ended up telling a few of my friends about it and they laughed about it. I was happy about talking to her again, but I was mad that she went off on me for no reason.

What do these dreams mean? I'm really confused. It seems like my dreams are telling me something. Is the situation going to start back up again?

Hi. I am really sorry I did not see your post till now. I'm guessing that things must have changed between you and this girl since then. Can you give an update? A dream can't predict what is going to happen, but it can help you see things more clearly, which can help you make the right decisions.

I think the first dream about the guy with the gun has to do with how you react to. I think the dream is telling you that by getting upset by what she said to her friend, you are only hurting yourself (guy pointing gun at you.) The part with him laughing could be you telling yourself you are making a fool of yourself.

The pregnancy dream could have do do with your being jealous of her boyfriend. The pregnancy doesn't represent an actual pregnancy, but something that she shares with her boyfriend (closeness, time together, etc.)

The dreams about you and her laughing and talking and texting an arguing could have to do with your hopes and fears for your relationship with her. The same with the amusement park dream - the amusement park also has to do with the roller coaster of ups and downs you are feeling about this.

About your friend's dream - maybe she saw something in the girl's behaviior that makes her think the girl really likes you and wants to date you. But your friend couldn't really know.

After seeing that she is happy and with someone, I finally unfollowed her on Instagram and blocked her on Kik because it was hard for me to handle anymore. But a few weeks later, I followed her again and unblocked her. Within a minute, she accepted and followed me too. I've unfollowed and re-followed her a few times before so I didn't think she would do it again. Weeks later, she and her sister gave me a rating on Instagram. Denasia's rate was just a simple number while her sister gave a number and even said hey. I was mad that my rating was different from everyone else's when their rates had more to it than a simple number. When we returned to school from summer break, I planned on talking to her but I couldn't because we were already late. I was mad that day because my classes were all very challenging and I had no classes nor lunch with her. Later, I ended up breaking down because of all the stress. But the next day, I felt a little better. Though, it rained that day and the buses were running late. She was nowhere to be seen. When the bus finally got there, her sister and her friends didn't even go looking for her. I wanted to search for her, but I contemplated hard about it. I felt like she wouldn't do the same for me because I've missed the bus numerous times. She eventually made it to the bus but the bus driver made it seem like he was going to pass by her. She was looking very sad. And I felt really bad for her. But when she got on the bus, she started talking about her current or ex boyfriend.
Then, I tried to move on again. But I've realized every time I try to move on from her, it seems that we start to go back to each other. After the very day I decided to move on from her recently, she and I have begun to bump into each other and see each other all the time. We would look at each other, but we won't say anything. But recently, most of the times it would be her looking at me and I would just happen to notice. Just the other day, it was raining very hard and we were about to leave school. It took a while to get on the bus and I was right behind her. She turned around and looked at me with a slight smile. And then we had to step back for the bus doors to open and she begin leaning on me. It's very weird and confusing.

Maybe she wants to be friendly but she is afraid that it will cause too many problems. You should try not to let it stress you too much. I know that's easy to say

I believe you're right. We're now slowly becoming friends again I guess. She's liking my posts on Instagram and she even spoke to me recently without me saying anything first.

Good.