I've never really paid much attention to my dreams before now, but last night I had a dream that I can't get out of my head. It's put me in a strange mood all day and now I'm starting to wonder what it might mean.

I should start by saying that I'm happily married and have been for a year now and I have 2 children with this man.

In the dream I was in our garden doing some chores when I saw a man, in the dream I knew the man and we had a connection but looking back I don't know who the man was.
I tried to walk away from the man but I got the sense that I didn't want to walk away but I felt I should. At this point I realised I was wearing my karate gi but this later disappeared. As I walked away from the man, he followed me trying to talk to me and when I got to the back garden he caught up with me and grabbed me and kissed me. I resisted for a bit but eventually kissed him back and it felt really good. We then fell down on the grass and started having sex but I realised I didn't want to so I got up and walked away and then I woke up. I had a very uneasy sleep for the rest of the night.

This dream is very disturbing to me as I love my husband very much and have no idea why I would dream about something like this.

Can anyone help me figure out what it might mean?

This man does not have to be a real person.

It is possible that he is your animus, the strong, assertive part of you. The dream could be about you developing your inner strengths.