Several years ago,as a teenager, I would have a very similar dream over and over several times a month. This went on for several years and would always involve some girl that I was sweet on at the time, even if the girl did not know it. Sometimes it was a girl I was dating. Other times it may be a girl I had a crush on that did not even know me.

In one dream I remember, I was standing in the doorway of a motel room with my back to the hallway. All of a sudden, a very strong, hairy, yet still feminine arm came around my throat from behind and put me into a sleeper type choke hold. I tried to get out of it, but never could. Just before passing out, they let me go. When I turned around, it would be the girl that I was sweet on standing there playfully laughing at me as if she had been playing a joke and not intended to harm me.

Another one I dreamed that I was on a camping trip with a girl. The girl and I were camping together,but with seperate sleeping arrangement. She had a tent, and I was sleeping outside on the ground.
It started raining real hard, and I wanted to get into the tent, but she would not let me. So I pushed my way in anyway.So to get me out of the tent, the girl puts me in a sleeper type choke hold just as in the other dream. Her arm was also just like the girl's in the other dream in it was strong,hairy yet feminine. After I was choked senseless, she shoved me out of the tent.

The other one I remember was me and a girl at our School's Prom or Homecoming dance as we were dressed up pretty nice. Upon leaving the school, we noticed that the parking lot was a big field of mud, and we would have to walk thru it to get to my truck. She did not want to get muddy, so I offered to carry her. I picked her up fireman style and started walking. About halfway to my truck, I slipped and fell, dumping her into the mud, covering her dress. She was angry at me and just as in the other dreams, put me into a sleeper type choke hold with strong,hairy feminine arms...

As you can see, the common thing in all these dreams is that they end by me being choked from behind as in a sleeper hold, and when the arm goes around my throat from behind, I always notice that it is very hairy, but still feminine and not like a hairy man's arm would look???

I am in my 40s now,happily married and have not had this type of dream in several years...

Anyone have any idea what it means to have constant dreams about being choked by girls with hairy arms???

Hi and Welcome!

Were you ever bossed around by a female authority figure during the time period when you had those dreams? Did it feel like this person had a "choke hold" on you? For example, if it was your mother, perhaps she didn't approve of your choice in girlfriends.