My boyfriend and I are expecting our first baby soon and we are both very very excited. But I keep having this reoccurring dream where I'm still pregnant but I come home and he is alone in our house with some girl from work. So we get into a very big fight and in one of them I broke up with him because of it. I'm not sure what to think, because when I wake up everything is fine, he's very sweet and as far as I'm aware he's not cheating. What do you think?
I think it is anxiety and other strong emotions exacerbated by pregnancy hormones as well as just not knowing what to expect with your first baby. You could also, unconsciously, be worried about how your boyfriend feels about your changing body. I'm not saying you have anything to worry about; it's just that when you're appearance changes it's natural to think about how people close to you are going to feel about it. If you have no reason to believe that he is cheating, you shouldn't worry about it. Another explanation could be that the girl in the house represents some aspect of yourself that bothers you.