Okay ... so I'm freaking out right now!
Two nights ago I had a dream about my Husband. He had died. I don't know why. It wasn't really made clear in the dream. But I'm thinking It was a car accident. Anyways ... in the dream all I did was cry and scream and cry!! I remember I was saying things like "I just want my babe back", and "it's all my fault!" "I miss him so much". When I woke up I was crying so hard and I couldn't control myself!! I was in a bad mood for a while after I woke up. And I cried for at least an hour ... even though when I woke I seen that my husbad was safe.

The next dream I had was last night. I was at some soft of park with my two children. I had my son (who is 6) with me and my daughter was in some sort of Large cabinet thingy that had a baby bassinet built into it. Some woman came up to me and asked me to check on her son who was also in the cabinet thing with my baby (she's 6months old). So I went to check on him. The woman had closed the door on our children! And he son was like 8 or so and he was way to big to be in there with my baby. I gave the woman a look because her son was all sweaty and dehydrated. Then I grabbed my baby. She started coming toward me saying things like "You can't judge me!" ... "You know what I could do to you!" She grabbed me son by the neck and was making a motion that she could snap it. In that instant I was trying to hand my baby off to some other woman that I knew that was working behind a restaurant counter. I finally got the workers attention and gave her my baby. When I went to look for my son, he was gone!!!! So I ran around frantically looking for him. I called my husband but every time I tried to call him my phone wouldn't work or I had dialed the wrong number, or his number was disconnected. So I called my son's father. He answered and said he'd be there shortly, but while I was on the phone with him I felt something lodged in my throat, I coughed and spewed everywhere. One of his friends in the background was like "Nasty a** B*tch!" Then I went looking for my husband. I found him he was like hooked up to an IV getting a blood transfusion or something. I told him and he was up and out the door with me to go look for my son! In the mean time my son's father never showed up like he said he would. Then there was a man with a gun. He pointed it at me. I hit his hand away to my right, and noticed another man with a gun pointed at me. I grabbed the man in front of me's hand and the gun and fired it at the man on the right. Then the man in front of me pulled out a tazor, and I slapped that out of his hand and it went flying and tazed the man on the right. The man in front of me drove off, and the man on the right came after me. I escaped him. Then my husband and I seen a car with the woman who had taken my son getting into it. Without hesitating I ran and jumped onto the back of the car and straddled while they were driving at a high speed. My husband jumped on too and we locked our legs together to a tighter grip on top of the vehicle. And then I woke up!!

Sorry this was so long, both dreams FREAKED me out! Why would I dream about bad stuff happening to my family???

The dream about your husband dying in a car accident makes me think that you sense that something about him has been changing, and that you feel that you have been "losing" him.

I think that the woman in the dream is yourself. You are feeling guilty about neglected something. Not necessarily neglecting your children, but preventing something - an opportunity or a new venture - from growing. You could feel that you are hindering your own self-growth.

The other woman's son stuck in the cabinet with your baby so that they are both dehydrated and suffocating can mean that you feel that you have taken on something extra that is taking up too much of your energy.

Your son going mising could have to do with other things getting away of your paying attention to the things that are really important.

The thing caught in your throat could have to do with feelings that you haven't been able to express? Could this have anything to do with your relationship with your son's father?

Your husband getting the blood transfusion could also be related to him changing. (He's getting new blood.)

At the end of the dream, you are very good at defending yourself from the guns and the taser. I think that is a sign that you will be able to handle things no matter waht changes.

Your husband coming in the car with you at the end to help you get your baby is a sign that in the long run, you feel that you can trust your husband and that he will be there to support you.