My ex boyfriend and I were very much in love. There was some weird external forces that caused our very ugly breakup. You see, he's a people pleaser/doormat personality. He was accustomed to being used. However, I didn't use him. I always tried to open his eyes to his detrimental behavior so I was the one who didn't get pleased. I was the one who got walked over. It got ugly because less than 2 months prior my mom passed and I was in complete mental turmoil and couldn't fathom how he could be so impatient, heartless and cold to someone he claimed to love. No one understands what its like to lose smeone close to you until they experience it. There was an issue with his ex girlfriend who was calling the house and cell profusely. I so wish I could just talk to him to get some closure. Honestly I still desire him. Two different friends on 2 separate occasions saw him and said all he does is talk about me and how much he loved me. Anyhoo its been 3 months since the breakup. My 1st dream was about him hugging me and showing me the proper way to do something. 2nd was about us being in some sort of office. Then I met this beautiful woman that became my friend. She had just aquired my old job. We were dressing to go out and I looked at her naked body and she was beautiful. Once we were dressed she began talking about her new man and I realized it was my ex then I pushed her and wanted to fight her! 3rd. dream was just me and my ex having a phone conversation, I was telling him I loved him and didn't want to lose him. The very next night I had the 4th dream that I came to his house and my ex from 4 years ago was there and they were sleeping in the same bed, then I went to the liquor store and 1 of their friends came in to buy. I looked outside in the car and there was my dog in the front seat! Like I said we had an ugly breakup so I have been No Contact and so has he. I think he likes it that way. So even in my dreams I knew not to confront him about anything. Someone please give me some insight. Thanks!

Lonely, Brokenhearted

I'm not sure what you want insight on.

Do you want to find a way to get over him and move on? Are you thinking about whether you should be back together?

The dream about him hugging you and showing you the proper way to do something could have to do with your thoughts about the proper way to maintain a good relationship.

The beatiful woman in the second dream could be the person that you wish you were. She has your old job and your old boyfriend - so the dream could be about you wishing that things hadn't changed.

I think the third dream is a reflection of your unconscious feelings, wishing you were back together.

The fourth dream, where he and your ex from long ago, are both in the same bed, could be a message that there are things about the two of them that are similar, and you need to look at whether you have been repeatiing some of the same mistakes in your relationship.

I think you need to ask yourself why you still desire the guy you just broke up with and why you want to contact him when he treated you badly. This could have to do with the way you handle relationships in general, which is why the dream shows two ex-boyfriends in the same bed.

The liquor store could have to do with wanting to enjoy yourself and think about the good things and forget about the bad. People sometimes drink alchohol to cover up pain. There could also be the idea that too much alcohol is poisonous, and this guy could be "poison" to you.

A dog is a loyal creature, that you can always count on, so I think the fact that you find your dog is a message that no matter what happens in your relationship, you can count on yourself.