well this is the sixth dream ive had with the same person in a series of two days already.
its this guy that i used to mess around with no biggie. we liked each other yeah but, it was just for the fun so it doesnt make any sense to me.

in the sixth dream [today]:were driving in a friends car to the gas station. the drive seems forever but, his driving is reckless and crazy. its funny how we dont get into a car accident and everything is fine. so were eating the candy she has in her car and throughtout the whole dream im sucking this lollipop. were holding hands, talking sweet to eachother like were together but, were not, i noticed that when were getting close and he's kissing my neck 1) he has these sores on his neck but there drying up and healing 2) nobody is driving the car and were in the back seat together 3) everytime i try to get physically close to him someone or something distracts us and we do other things. i held his hand and told him that i liked him and he was going to say something back but, his cellphone rang and he started talking to his gf. i remember one part he says i look cute and adorable but i had no idea why... plus throughout the whole dream he is protecting me liek hugging me, holding me in his arms,

whatd does this all mean?? it doesnt make any sense? and why do i keep having dreams with him??

I think you keep having dreams about him because there is something about him - or a quality that he stands for - that you have been thinking about alot subconsciously. You'll keep having the dreams until you deal with whatever this is.

Some of this dream has to do with not having control over things - his reckless driving in the car, and then you both being in the back seat with nobody driving the car.

What is the situation with the girlfriend? Did he stop seeing you because he started going out with her? That might help explain the dreams a bit better.

well i found out that when he was messing around with me he had a gf of three years the whole time. it didnt stop like we had to b/c it was wrong it just... did. he said that some of the things that i could give him she couldnt. i wasnt looking for a relationship just a good time. soo i dont know... the dreams have stopped but, i feel like there going to come back again. can you explain more what this means? :rasta:

I think your having all these dreams is a sign that you still unconsciously have feelings for him, even though you are telling yourself that you were just messing around and it was no big deal.

However, there are signs that you know that something was wrong with your being together - the reckless driving and the sores on his neck. You say that you didn't stop seeing him because of the girlfriend, it just happened, but there would have been a reason that you stopped seeing each other even if you think it's not very important. I am surprised that the fact that he had a girlfriend and didn't tell you didn't bother you, even if you were just messing around. Not just because he had a girlfriend, but because he didn't tell you the truth.

I think the phone call from the girlfriend is a wake up call to face up to what is happening now, but his hugging you is a sign that you want to be protected from reality.

I don't know why you would suddenly be having all these dreams about him now. Is there anything going on in your life that could be related?

well even though we stopped sometimes i still want it to go on bc i like the way he is. he used to hug me and kiss my forehead/lips like a boyfriend suppose too. i dont know.. i havent been to work in 2wks due to surgery. i do remember that when i started working there i liked him but, i never payed much attention to it. now i have a boyfriend so my concerns and everything else are to him.

Just because part of you wants it to go on doesn't mean that it should go on. The dreams are just making you aware of the conflicting feelings that you have.

Do you work with his person? I don't really understand the part of your post about going back to work. If so, I can imagine that it might be uncomfortable seeing him everyday. Maybe the dreams are a way of letting out your feelings at night so you can do your job during the day without becoming emotional.

I hope everything has gone well with your surgery.