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Jealousy and Needle Bearing Brown Bears, please help!

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Jealousy and Needle Bearing Brown Bears, please help!

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    Little Ani

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    I feel I have to tell you that remembering dreams is a rare thing for me, I don't usually remember my dreams and I often sleep without dreaming.
    This dream stuck with me and I can't quite understand why. I'd like to be able to interpret it if I could, but I obviously can't, help me out???
    I am at a mall with my best friend Aleshia, she has $200 and I have no money. In real life this is a usual occurrence, she will get about $200 or $300 and we'll go shop even though I don't have any money at all. We decide to go get something to eat in the food court and when we get there it's just a table surrounded by blackness. I look down and i've got $5 in my hand, and I want to buy a shirt, I need to buy a shirt. We go down an escalator and we are suddenly surrounded by 5 or 6 guys that are all complimenting and flirting with Aleshia. Then the mall is being evacuated but we don't know why, we run for the nearest door we see. We all are walking down a dark, creepy hallway with a concrete ceiling, floor, and walls, there are rusted pipes sticking out from every corner and some are broken and emitting a strange kind of steam. All the while the boys are still complementing Aleshia. This starts to get to me and I feel jealous, I try my hardest to get their attention by telling jokes, doing tricks like back flips and stage magic but nothing seems to work, some of them even laugh. We get to the end of the hallway and there is a door, we open it and go outside. The sun is shining brightly and I close my eyes, when I open them they take a second to adjust and when they finally do, Aleshia and I are standing there outside of our high school all alone.
    And it all disintegrates to black.
    Now I am in a green field, it's a kind of overcast, grey day, and the field is surrounded by a ring of trees and shrubbery.
    I am myself in my mind, but I am also a triplet who is camping with my sisters who look nothing like I do in real life, but they are my triplets so I also know that I look exactly the same as they do.
    We are all very pale, with very light golden hair, we all wear the same long white and pale blue lace dresses. We are all barefoot.
    One sister is having trouble setting up the tent, and the other is afraid that if she doesn't set it up in time bears will come.
    She says, "Bears are dangerous, aren't they?"
    and I reply, "Of course not, we are dangerous."
    Then I hear the tent pitching triplet scream, she's pointing towards the trees.
    Three brown blobs bob up and down, and as they come closer I see that they are three bears, running.
    They come closer and closer and we are frozen in place, when they are about 25 feet from us I can see that they all carry syringes in their mouths.
    I gasp, and blink.
    Now I'm on the opposite side of the field, about where the bears were, maybe alittle further, I start to run to my sisters.
    I'm alittle more than halfway there when I notice my feet don't feel... right. I look down and there are syringes in my feet, stuck inside the bottom, I yank them out without feeling it and continue running until I've ran myself into darkness.
    And then I woke up, and I haven't forgotten the dream since, the first part I probably would've forgotten if not for the bear dream. It was so unusual I suppose, how could I NOT remember it?
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    sweet slumber

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    Hi and Welcome!

    That was a very interesting and full of imagery dream. I'm curious to know what you think about the part where you say the bears are not dangerous, we are. What do you think it means?
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    Little Ani

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    well, i'm really not sure, that's why i came here.
    i thought there might be some connection between the 3 bears and the 3 girls, i know i didn't feel like the bears were dangerous, but i didn't feel like my "sisters" were either.
    i don't know if this is any connotation, but dreams are stemmed from personal problems, right? during the time i had this dream my best friend and i were on really bad terms and as far as friends go i'd say she's my soul sister/mate, and my parents were going through a really rough divorce and it was very stressful, i live with my 3 siblings, i'm the exact middle of 5 children, a younger brother and sister, and older brother and sister, and i'm 16.
    i really want to figure this one out!
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    In the fable Goldie Locks and the Three Bears, the girl invades the den of a family. She did not perceive any dangers either. She finds the stuff of the baby bear "just right."

    Are you familar with this tale and does this resonate with you? The three girls and three bears makes me think of this classic story. Since you are the middle sibling, perhaps you feel closest to your youngest sibling. Is this sibling someone you can talk to? Confide in?

    I hope your friendship is on the mend. You may harbor some jealosy toward her and your friend may have sensed it and it lead to the fight. This could also be what the dream is about--you (Goldie Locks) are looking for stuff that you dont' have and you prefer what the baby bear (your friend or youngest sibling) has.
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    Little Ani

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    i can see what you are saying, and i think it has more of a connection to the first dream, i honestly always have been jealous of my friend but it was not so much to cause conflict. when we were fighting, it was because my other very good friend and her moved in together and completely ignored me for months to follow, when i got the nerve to tell them how much it hurt me Aleshia apologized but the other friend fluffed it off, calling it "petty", and told me that's just how she is. since then Aleshia moved out of the other friend's place and she's now in Alaska, she'll be moving back with me into my place around christmas.

    and yes, i am extremely close to my youngest sister, we were always at each other's throats up until last april when i moved out, i think it really helped to be away from eachother, and i actually miss her sometimes. i've always been very, very, if not more so close to my brothers until i moved away from my sister, now i tell her most everything, the only person i tell everything is Aleshia though.

    what i'm really interested in is the significance of the triplets, and the syringes.
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    The triplets could represent 3 situations or problems. My hunch is that it's related to your frienships with your friends and the situation being your living quarters. The conflict was over who lived with who. Your friend Aleshia could be like Goldie Locks, can't make up her mind where she's most comfortable. When you tell one of your triplets in the dream that "bears are not dangerous," you are proven wrong. Do you think now you were wrong about something concerning this situation involving your friends and the apartments? Do you feel one of them is "dangerous" to the other, perhaps in mental health?

    Syringes are things that inject. Maybe you needed a "doseage" of reality in your situation? Or you need to inject something within yourself. It could be understanding, or assertiveness, or compassion.
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    Little Ani

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    yes, i think you're right! thanks so much, it all makes alot of sense to me.

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