Ok, so a bit of backstory, one of my best friends in college (we'll call him ST) is going out with this girl i had (and still do) a huge crush on (lets call her M), it got messed up along the way and M knows i like her. Now the other week we were getting on really well and one of my other friends (lets call him E) made a joke about us having an affair and M said oh yeah we are and laughed along, but the next day E came in and said he had a dream that me and this M were in his bedroom and i was asleep in a coat and she came in (apparently she was in a night dress) and she wanted to sleep somewhere, then i apparently woke up and said i was cold. Then the other day my other friend (call him K) told me he had a dream i was talking M and i was saying how much i hated my ST (i really don't) and all the way through he was hiding behind her, but she was laughing along, what does all this mean? i think its a bit odd that people are having dreams about us.

does your friend know about the situation because somone could have told him about you two just before he went to sleep and it could have got in his dreams.

if not,
you may have to prepare yourself for situations involving the three of you.

He has known about the situation since about july (maybe earlier), this was before ST was going out with M, i think ST knows about Es dream but i don't think he was exactly happy about it and i think he actually feels a little threatened by some of the situations, i dunno what M thought about the dream.

EDIT- i have made some changes to this, making it easier to identify everyone, just to clear anything up i'll list the people-

M: girl i like/best friends girlfriend
ST: best friend/girl i likes boyfriend
E: dreamer 1 (who had the bedroom dream)
K: dreamer 2 (me saying i hated ST dream

Sorry to double post, but i had a dream about her last night, which was odd, it seemed almost real because there was nothing too odd about it, basically it was of me phoning for her for reasons i can't remember, and she sounded really really happy to hear my voice (as if we hadn't talked for years), i can't remember what exactly was said, i just remember it was nice, then she put ST on the phone, i can't remember what he said either, but it was quite wierd, could this possibly mean the build up to something? because heres a little more background on the situation-

About a year ago (so, at the start of college) we hit it off really well straight away, she actually scared me a little with how enthusiastic she was over me (coming up and talking to me all the time, pressuring me to get a myspace account {i dispised myspace before college}, complimenting me, etc) and to be honest i didn't really consider wether i liked her or not seeing as i was just getting out of another situation that i was in before college (not gonna go into it now) but then i dunno, all of a sudden i started developing feelings for her, so after a week or so i mustered the courage to ask her out, she said no, she dosen't see me in that way.

I felt knocked back for a few days and thought hey, its just a girl and i'll get over it, so next time we saw eachother it was all fine as if nothing happened, then it got to about a couple of weeks later and i still couldn't shake these feelings for her and i was feeling really bad about it, anyway, time passed and i was sort of getting over her but was still finding it incredibly hard to not see her in that way, part of the main reason is that we are in all the same classes, our circle of friends was very close knit within a short space of time, also me and her talked to eachother really alot and had alot of fun with eachother, plus she really acted like she liked me. I then spoke to a friend who also liked her and asked him to help me out (he is very good at giving advice, etc), i told him the situation and i said that i overheard her say she liked 4 guys, i knew who 2 of them were and a possibly third but i didn't know the 4th, he said it could well have been me.

One night, my friend had a chat with her (the same friend i went to for advice) and after he was finished i asked him what she said and he said she told him she felt very overcrowded with the amount of people that liked her (there were quite a few people) and that she didn't want to hurt anyone, she said she likes the 2 guys who i suspected and she was also thinking wether she may have seen me as more and wanted to give it a shot, i then spoke to her best friend and mentioned that, but she went and told her everything, by this time M backed out (i assume its because she was upset that i didn't go to her) and she pulled me to one side and said its not gonna work out. Needless to say i was pretty much crushed, so time passed, dramas happened, our relationship has ranged from incredibly close to pretty much hating eachother, she has gone from liking one guy to the next in our class, yet without doing anything with them.

Now, two pretty big things (in my opinion, although there have been quite a few other things but i would end up making it so much longer than it already is, as if it wasn't enough) have happened between now and then, the first was when we went on holiday with the college, it was for 4 days, on the first half of the first day we hardly spoke, she was being very cold towards me, so i just thought oh well, then as time went on we became very close, she wanted me with her all the time, was always talking me, bought me a few drinks, etc, and it was nice, but then when we got back she just sort of dismissed me and said she didn't feel that way for me.

The second thing wasn't too long ago, again, during a college trip, but this time only for 3 days, a day before we left she again, dismissed me (although i admit, at this point i was being a bit obsessive over her), so on the day we left (the first day) i ignored her pretty much, i didn't have the energy plus it felt very awkward, but then about half way through the journey there we just started talking and we ended up going back to normal, chatting, having a laugh, then when we got there we looked around a bit, had a meal, then went to one of the bars for a drink, then after a while we decided to move to another bar (at this point we were quite drunk), and i noticed around this point she was getting rather close to ST (who was, at this point starting to become one of my very good friends), then after this we moved to a club, so we were all dancing away, she danced with me for a bit (in a pretty provocative way) then we carried on just all dancing, then she started moving into ST, so i decided right, might as well take the chance, so i made a move on her (kissing her, etc, didn't jump on her or anything, i slowly moved in) and she enjoyed it, but she also kissed ST in that night. The next day nothing was mentioned about it for a while and she seemed to be following me about a little and giving me funny looks, it was all ok until lunch, when she bought it up and said i took advantage of her, anyway, some things were said and long story short, we weren't talking to eachother for a while, but then in the same night we just started talking again just like that and then when we had some more drink again she was getting really close to me and staring into my eyes and holding my hand and all that shit, then when we were walking down the street she was hugging me and ST and her hand started drifting down to my ass (although shes groped my ass while sober as well), nothing really happened that night as she ended up getting really upset and went back to the hotel.

So now, the situation stands, again, our relationship has been swaying alot from good to bad from then to now (the first trip was in march, the second, in july), at 2 parties/meals we had before her and ST started going out and after the trups, she has made out with him, i have been thinking she is trying to make someone jealous or annoyed seeing as she made it so blatent, and now that shes going out with him she makes it even more blatent, she stares at me to make sure i am looking before she kisses him and keeps going on about him, she asked me how i felt when they first started going out with him and i just thought well why are you asking me. But since she has started going out with him our relationship has been ok at best, but we have argued a great deal, and apparently she feels really unloved and upset when we argue, and now that we are getting on we are getting on really well, when we get a rapport going i see glimpses of how it was this time last year and i like it, but i think her boyfriend feels a little threatened or left out, seeing as sometimes she devotes more attention on me than him, she also seems to change the subject quickly when i talk about how we were at first when her boyfriend is about. So it seems as though it may be building to something.


There we go, there is my backstory to this, sorry for the long read

This situation could have easily got in someones dreams without meaning, I think you personally are looking for a resolution of this whole situation.

I can't tell you what your next move should be.

well i just thought it was wierd that we started getting on really well and things like that were happening then all of a sudden people had 2 dreams within a few days of eachother about me and her, at the moment we have had a falling out (i have no idea why, i have done nothing wrong to her) and she is very pissed at me for some reason, she has also been trying to wind me up by talking about how she would like to have sex with him (or things like that), even though when i asked my friend he said they haven't had sex with eachother yet (i said to him i wouldn't care if he did, i just wanted to know to clear it up) and that she is just trying to annoy me.