Hello there Found this site whilst browsing sites to try and intrepret a dream i had that is giving me some confusion and was wondering maybe someone on here can give me there insight into it. The dream is random things i remember but i believe these to be the significant parts that i remembered for a reason! Im on a mountain bike (riding it and pushing it along when i am talking to the male) Im heading to a building large in size and resembles a college or university quite a modern style building not old. In the not too distance i see sat on a bench a female i know personally from my past called Sarah who is older than me and a polish male i got to know last year called Lukasz both seem to be talking to each other (yet as far as im aware have never met in real life) they seem close too close for my particular liking. I approach them and Lukasz gets up and comes to me smiling and gives me a hug (something he did every time i saw him) i just half smile (forced) at Sarah and then i say i am off to class ... Lukasz then comes with me walking at side of me whilst i am pushing the bike he is very close to my body ... whilst this is happening Sarah seems to have got disgruntled and slices her leg open and peels away the layers of skin but NO blood and bones show and see seems to be venting this towards Lukasz in my dream as though she trying to get at him for being with me. (Hope this doesnt sound that confusing?) Anyways me and Lukasz go inside the building and head to a room with a tables laid out like an examination but we are still talking (i cant heard what is being said by both him or me sorry) i see a coffee bar type area in the building and only a random few other people ... Lukasz gives me a kiss on the lips and i sit down smiling. Then i wake up Any thoughts on this????? Cheers The other one i would like help on is this >>> Also i am having the same lucid dream involving the same male (Lukasz) from the dream posted above in the form that i see him in a shop (polish) and we talk and he is with about 3 male friends i am getting some food and he asks me in polish how i am with which i response in polish back but my heart begins racing so i try to hurry up and leave (he had this affect on me when i last saw him) we have a slight conversation i which i say i thought you had returned back home to poland and he replies he did but he came back for someone :-? i reply simply oh right there in english (as the conversation is both in english and polish) He runs out the shop and shouts my name and i stop and he places his hand near my heart and asks whats wrong? I reply nothing. But the feelings between us are strong i go to walk away and one of his male friends appears and signals to Lukasz to do something, but im thinking to myself as walking away just kiss him and you will know ... to which i do and he responses i then walk away with him saying can i see you again i tell him yes and give him a slip of paper with my address, gadugadu (polish messenger id) number on and mobile number. There you go if you are truly interested you have those options to contact me (as he has had my number twice before and never contacted me :'( in real life) and i am having this scenerio occur regularly now and i am returning back to this dream after i have woken and gone back to sleep (something i never do with my dreams is return straight back to them) ANY HELP IS APPRECIATED! PLEASE
Did you like Lukasz romantically in waking life and would you also be jealous of Sarah talking to him if it was real, or is all that stuff just in the dream?
thanks for posting Lukasz and me never romantically connected in real life though things he did and that from when i have explained them to friends sounded though he had some feelings for me i just never worked out what?? But i did have feelings for him yes in real life and i think he knew this Sarah and me have a very bad past together she was a friend who was out for what she could get in life and didnt care much about the friends who were trying to help her and that (namely me) To my knowledge neither Sarah (whom i havent seen in over 18months) and Lukasz (whom i havent seen since October 2006 its my understanding from what others are telling me i know that he has apparently returned back to Poland) have never met in real life but i dont know!! Hope this helps you further ... as both dreams have left me confused :s
Don't worry, I don't think your dream means the two of them have met in real life, I just wondered how you felt about each of them because it makes a difference to the dream meaning. I wondered if the bits with you and Lukasz might be partially wish-fulfilment, or it could be your subconscious experimenting with the idea of being with Lukasz to see how it feels. Often when other people are in your dreams, like Sarah, they represent a part of yourself that is like them - or more like just one aspect of them that you admire but is suppressed in you. For instance you may think she is a bad person for being callous in her dealings with other people, but part of your subconscious might wish that you could be a bit less caring about what other people think and just go for things without worrying about the consequences. Most forms of transportation in dreams are thought to represent your journey through life and, because yours in this dream was a bicycle, which is slow moving anyway and you were pushing it at walking speed, it could be that you feel your life is not progressing as quickly as you might like it to. Perhaps you feel you've missed a few opportunities and Lukasz is representative of such, not because he really is or was a missed opportunity but because you have wondered if that is so, which makes your dreaming mind use him as an image to represent a possible missed opportunity. So when you see him in the dream there is nothing too surprising to you about Sarah grabbing an opportunity by being with him, as that's the kind of thing you'd have expected her to do in waking life if she had been around at the time Lukasz was with you. But in your dream you take her place and she is the jealous one, which could reflect your need to exchange places with her at least a little bit. I'm not saying you're wishing you were a callous, uncaring person or anything like that - just that you might wish to be more spontaneous and ask, do or try instead of wonder what might be. I think I might have babbled a bit there so I'm not sure how much sense it makes?
Thank you for your insight it is appreciated You are probably right with regards Lukasz you see when i met him at work he would always stop and make the effort to talk to me and would cuddle me and wave with an outstretched arm .. also he allowed me to take a photo of him (something which is rarely done on the polish male side apparently as they are reluctant to allow this) I am very fond of him and hope that he is doing alright and that he is well and happy Sarah is someone really that caused me alot of problems around the time my daughter was born in fact she went out her way to say someone was my daughters father that wasnt and caused his family issues. I do make the effort to talk to her and she is often surprised when i tell her things in my life that have happened and that and she usually states i wish i was like you Tara and got on with my life and that. I do tend to worry about what others will say or react to my actions and i do often think and hold back on making these decisions due to this but this is on a family level than a friend level. I guess i do feel like my life is not moving as freely as i would like or in the direction i want it to do so I do have a slight jealous side to me and that but i certainly dont do callous nature or be uncaring .. but as you say i do think i wish i could be more spontenous and everything around this and not worry what others think or feel about what i do more. I do certainly wish i would do instead of wonder!!! thanks kindly on that If anyone else wants to input on this or offer their insight please do cheers