I dreamt that i was staying in a house with a male friend and some others I didn't know too well. I felt slightly romantically inclined towards my friend. then a girl I know he likes in real life turned up at the door in tears (she also saw me looking dressed up in the background - i felt embarrassed and guilty) she stormed off and went into a house nearby. i told my friend to follow her and console her, he did. i then went to bed but began to be harassed by another guy i didn't really know for sex. i made excuses and i tried to get away from him but he chased me he tried locking the doors and i went to use the phone to call my friend but didn\'t know his number by heart and the bad guy disconnected the phone quickly. i tried to escape or get my friend. i managed to get out the back door and tried running to the other house my friend was in to call him but i got lost and the guy was still chasing me. i ended up in a big city that was a mixture of london and the town i grew up in - i went looking for the house i spent my early childhood in but then realised my coat with my bus ticket and wallet was left at the original house. feeling completely lost and hopeless i then woke up

Maybe your looking for a lover and a friend? You want someone you can connect with on a personal level while not being obligated for sex until you're ready.

Are guys pushing you for physical relationships you're not ready for in reality?

That's a good point. I started seeing somebody lately, which seemed to be going well, then he suddenly cooled off and ignored me for almost a fortnight. In the interim, while upset, I ended up kissing my friend. The guy I'd been seeing just got back to me again, and seemed to be suggesting a purely sexual relationship.

Perhaps there was something even pre-emptive in the dream? Who knows. Your suggestion was really great!

Glad I could help!

I think too that we sense things ahead of time, sort of like an intuitive feel of where a situation is leading and how it will turn out.