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Lost and found

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    Inbtw

    Inbtw New Member

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    Hello,

    Last night I had a dream, actually 3 but there is this one that I remember the most.
    I was in class, and after class I realized I lost my guitar. So I ask one of my classmate to help me. For some reasons, we end up hanging out in the cafeteria for a while without even ordering. I apologize to him and we're looking for my guitar. We finally find it, we're heading out. It's getting dark outside and I realize my friend has a motorbike and I feel like he didn't want to drive it after dark. He didn't say anything but I felt it. He gave me a favor... When he leaves, I realize I forgot my bag! So I'm back in the building. I get lost many times. There are 2 cafeterias and I get confused. And then, 3 babies appear in my dreams. I lose them and I end up looking for them. I run into one of my roommate who is helping me to find the babies. We finally find them. Also, one of the baby's face changes because there was a mistake at birth...

    After that dream, there is one thing that I remember really well, I am with my roommate and one of my friend in somebody's house, like a hippy house. I'm having sex with the old hippy dude (I'm actually on top if that makes a difference)...he is not wearing a condom. I feel guilty but I know it's a dream so I dont feel too bad. I'm going straight to the shower and clean. I actually never had any sexual dreams before (I mean sexual intercourse).

    That was a very weird night!

    FYI I am a student, I play the guitar, and the guy I have a crush on has a bike, so maybe there's some link.

    Thank you :)
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    Inbtw

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    Anyone? :hi:
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    Marcia

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    I think this dream has to do with the choices that you have made or are making in life and how you feel they will affect you in the future.

    The guitar could have to do with how you express yourself, particulary how you express your feelings, since music is often used to express your emotions. Losing your guitar could mean that you feel that you can't express your feelings. It could also be your unconscious reminding you of repressed feelings.

    Driving on the motorbike with your friend after dark when you know he doesn't want to could have to do with conflicting feelings in yourself or knowing that you have to do something that you don't want to do in order to get further in life.

    Losing your bag could have to do with feeling unprepared.

    Getting lost and being confused by the two cafeterias could have to do with confusion about your choices in life. A cafeteria itself is a place where you choose between different kinds of food.

    A cafeteria is also associated with nourishment so this could have to do with you figuring out what is good for you.

    A baby can represent something new in your life so the three babies can respresent different choices that you have for your future. Losing them could have to do with a fear that if you make the wrong decisions, you will go from having many choices to having nothing.

    The baby's face changing because there was a mistake could signify that you are afraid that you mad a wrong decision.

    It's possible that the "old hippy dude" in your dream was the archetypical wise old man and having sex with him represented your gaining knowledge about yourself.

    Whether or not being on top was significant would depend on whether that is a normal sexual position for you in waking life. If it was unusual for you, it could have to do with you gaining control of what you know about yourself and using that to gain control over your future.
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    Inbtw

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    wow this analysis is spot on!
    That's exactly what's going on in my life right now. I have 2 choices to make and I feel pressured to make a decision as it may change my future.
    From what I get it's based on fears...
    Yes being on the top is a normal sexual position for me in waking life.
    I wish this dream would have told me what I really feel like doing...

    Thank you so much Marcia!! :)
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    ElizVanZee

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    The guitar in this scene can represent either/both the idea of a guitar and playing the guitar, or “making music with” your chosen instrument, i.e. having a sexual relationship with someone. The scene can suggest that following from to a situation in which there is something to learn (I was in class) you lose the idea of playing the guitar or having a sexual relationship with someone. (after class – I lost my guitar) You may need to question the idea of asking someone who seems supportive for help in this matter. (ask one of my classmate to help me) You end up using a mental attitude which gives you the right to pick and choose whatever gives you the most satisfaction. (end up in the cafeteria). You feel there is some logic or justification for thinking this way. (for some reason we end up….) but the True Self does not acknowledge any justification. (no reason is actually given here) Without even ordering in the cafeteria, confirms the fact that there is really no reason for having this “I can chose what I like attitude” in this situation.

    Finding the guitar would imply that you see the idea of playing the guitar or having a sexual relationship as “a find”, i.e. as an idea to be valued or treasured. When seen in reality (heading outside), there appears to be less and less intelligence pertaining to this idea of playing the guitar or having a sexual relationship. (It's getting dark) You do realize that your friend has a way of thinking that is rather aggressive (friend has a motorbike) – one which can allow him to create his own path but you sense that he could be hesitant to think this way when it is obvious that the Lord’s intelligence will not be used. (he didn't want to drive it after dark … no sunlight then)

    You then realize that you have forgotten about those feelings that you put some value upon. (forgot my bag) Then you return to a mental attitude or way of thinking that has been built up to seem quite important (back in the building) but it is one in which you repeatedly “lose the way” (meaning God’s way) or simply have lost your sense of being directed or guided. Now the situation in which you could think you have the right to chose what pleases you appears to be negative and wrong and it confuses you. (2 cafeterias) The 3 babies represent an innocent aspect of yourself which includes sexual innocence as well as representing a good/godly new idea or project which you end up losing sight of. Again there is someone who is helping you to see this innocence as “a find” – as an aspect of yourself to treasure. A mistake made when the good idea, or your innocence, had to become a living physical reality has caused your identification with the idea/innocence to change. (baby’s face changes because of a mistake at birth)

    In a hippy house would refer to being of a mental attitude that could stress being oneself and the idea of free love (as in no marriage required). This attitude in this case involves going with emotional support from a negative and wrong way of thinking. (with roommate & friend) The old hippy dude represents a mental aspect of yourself and an old idea you have which reflects the hippie philosophy – especially sexual freedom. Sex with the old dude implies that you are putting something over onto your own mind; seducing yourself mentally. It can also indicate an inappropriate closeness or social intercourse with somebody who lives a free and easy lifestyle. You have left yourself vulnerable to an unwanted pregnancy. As long as you know this inappropriate closeness or actual sex is but a fantasy, there would be no need for a lot of guilt. (know it's a dream so I don’t feel too bad) But nevertheless there is a need to clean and correct your emotional nature represented by the body. (going straight to the shower and clean). [Are you by some chance fantasizing about sex with some rock star?]
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    Inbtw

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    Thank you ElizVanZee for this long analysis. English is not my 1st language so I'm not sure if I got everything. It is an interesting interpretation!
    "Are you by some chance fantasizing about sex with some rock star?">>humm not really :)

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