Last night i dreamt that i was involved with a man who was married to someone else ...he then invited me to his renewal of the vows cermony..i sat there at the wedding and it was really awful...then later in the dream he said that he was sorry and that he didnt care who knew and he picked me up and carried me about the room and then i read a text on his phone saying that it was all going to be ok?????
Do you fel like you are in the wrong situation in life, that you are stuck in a situation when in your heart you think you should be doing something else? Do you feel like you are hiding something about yourself because you are worried about what other people will think?
yeh i suppose that kind of fits..can u explain the feeling of actualy feeling picked up and carried in the dream?
Authenticity and integrity A good wedding generally means disjoined parts of your psyche are coming together, so you're becoming a more whole person. In this case, I wonder if there's some way in your life that you're not being authentic or perhaps cheating yourself. How did you feel in the dream when he carried you around? Being carried by another might go with not feeling in control of your own life. And when you saw the message, did you feel peaceful or distrust it or what? It all makes me think of a calling to be more centered and authentic in some way - spiritually perhaps, or getting more clear about who you are and then doing what's best for you. Any of this ring true?
i liked the feeling of being carried it felt safe and good...i dnont rember what i felt about the message though.
That helps. Given the good feeling of being carried I would guess you also felt good about the message that everything will be okay. A shift like this in a dream has two possible meanings: 1)it says here's where you've been for a while, and now here's the shift you recently made or are making in this moment - so it's an acknowledgment of your transition OR 2)here's where you are now, and here's what you need to do to shift into something else. In either case, the man in the later part of the dream is probably that part of you that is strong and compassionate. So you might honor the dream through a role-play. You could have a part of you that is strong and compassionate say to a part of you that is hurt and vulnerable something like, "I'm so sorry. I've got you now. You don't need to do anything. I love you. Everything will be okay." That sort of thing.