I went to somewhere and met a guy and he was very nice to me. Then he sat in a wheelchair even though he didn’t need one and I sat down too. We went to a super market and drove inside on his chair. We were going through the isles and then I saw my boyfriend. We stopped and I started talking to him and then the guy turned into one my girl friends. Then went to some house and there were a lot of girls there and my boyfriend and someone’s parents. We ate and my boyfriend went with 3 other girls to go pee in the fireplace because their parents said they could. I started playing a video game with someone’s mom and I lost. Then I saw my boyfriend in the kitchen and walked over to him and then the scene changed and I was outside in the snow with some guy and my sister. We were throwing snowballs at each other and then my boyfriend walked by with a group of girls. Then I woke up. I forgot a lot of parts but this is what I remember.
I think the guy that you met is a part of you that is strong mentally - because men are usually physically stronger than women. When he turns into your girlfriend, it is your unconscious' way of telling you that you have this strength in you even though you are a woman. (Is there anything important about the particular girlfriend he turns into?) Your both sitting in the wheechair has to do with your acknowledging that there are times in your life when you will need help, but that now you are strong and can take care of yourself. Being in a supermarket can have to do with the choices you make in life. Peeing in a fireplace makes me think of using something negative to destroy something positive and creative. Is there anything about your boyfriend's actions in waking life that would make you think of that? Regarding the video game with your mom, do you feel like you tend to lose in conflicts with her? Can you think of why you are always seeing your boyfriend with groups of girls? Does he have a lot of female friends in waking life? Do you feel insecure about your relationship with him?
He turned into one of my best friends that i really look up to and i do think i'm a lot stronger than other years. I know i have choices to make with life and where i want to go with it. Um i don't know about the destruction of something positive, i don't think he did anything other than cheating on me once and i guess that would be why he's always with a lot of girls in my dreams and i'm really mad when i see them but he doesn't have too many female friends in walking life. I didn't play the video game with my mom, i didn't know the woman she was one of the other girl's mother but i didn't feel bad about losing or anything, it was like, "oh i lost, oh well" and then i walk away.