I need your opinions about what this dream means. My crush Miguel was getting married to my friend and I was really upset. We were at the church and my friend wanted me to walk her down the aisle. As soon as we were right about to go don the aisle I left because I couldn't face him marryin someone else. I went home and then the next day I went back to the church to see if anyone was still there and i saw his car parked and I found out that they never got married! I was happy yet sad that he almost married her. In real life he doesn't have a girlfriend and I'm pretty sure that they dont like eat other. Really sure. Can someone answer please? Thank you

Does your friend have some quality that you wish you possessed, that you think would make you more attractive to Miguel?

no, my friend doesn't have a quality that i wish i had. we're the same kind of. i know that she doesn't like him, and he doesn't like her. it was so weird to see them together in that dream.

Does Miguel know how you feel about him?

Could you be worried about him finding someone else that he likes romantically so that you will lose your chance with him?

Your being happy yet sad could have to do with your having confused feelings about him.

do you know how he feels about you?

@Marcia, no, miguel doesn't know how i feel about him. at least i don't think so. i can't have anyone know at my church that i like him. they will tell him and i'm not sure i want him to know yet. sometimes i think he already knows just by the way he smiles at me and then maybe he knows by the way i act around him. it's kind of stupid but im kind of ignoring him. im not playing the game, it's just when i talk to him, i always say something stupid. and i blush, and people would notice if i talk to him more, they could tell that i like him.
i was a little worried at first that he liked someone, but then i calmed myself down and realized that if it wasn't meant to be then i would find someone else better. that was awhile ago. i'm pretty fine with everything. im not worried anymore.
yea, i am always happy when i am around him and i guess i am a little sad when i realize that he's not with me and idk if he likes me.

@Aader, i don't know. lol he does treat me different than the rest of the girls in our sunday school class. he will be making fun or joking around with them but he never does that with me, he always seems kind of nervous, and my friend was talking about how he will poke fun at everyone but he wouldn't dare do it to me. everyone loves him as a friend, he's like their older brother. then when we do talk, he can't look me in the eyes he looks up then down really quick. idk. sometimes i think he really likes me and then other times i don't see any signs lol

Maybe unconsciously you are still worried that he might find someone else, especially since you haven't let him know that you like him.

you know i've said this more times than i can count. relax and give it a chance. in ther words you two should go on a date it may help ya'll.

Marcia, it could be, that i am still worried a little. idk. i don't think it's the right time yet to tell him. idk I'm not sure i am ready for a relationship right now even though i'm going to be 20 realy soon. he's a little older than that, and not that that makes any difference to me it's just i was brought up the old fashioned way and i always said that the guy should make the first move and i still like that. he has to make the move. ugh i can be really impatient sometimes. there are alot of other girls in our class and so far he hasn't realyl done anything or asked anyone out. my friend was telling me that he didn't like anyone just because he hasnt done anything yet, but it could be that he thinks the other girl doesn't like him which idk. i mean i think he has a pretty good idea i like him just cuz of the stuff im doing. like what would a guy think when a girl ignores him alot. he ws sitting in front of me once and i shaded my eyes so i couldn't see him, we were in a gym so i can't say it was sunny. or maybe he's not ready for anything either and that's why he hasn't done anything.

aader, i so wish that he would just get the nerve to ask me out lol i wouldn't dare ask him though, i just can't. and besides im still not totally sure he likes me but going ona date with him definitely sounds good. it is me, i have to stop ignoring him and just talk to him more. i get ready to do that and then he walks in and my whole body is paralyzed.

that is foolishness people need to brave and try to do stuff they normaly don't do. i mean you go to church so i assume you are christian and a good christian doctrine is "Getting out of you Comfort Zone"

aader, yes, you assumed right. We are both strong christians. this is just what we have always been taught and it is the way that we are sticking to. there are many things that i do do to get out of my comfort zone but this, this i'll leave it to him to take charge. he is such a gentlemen. he wouldn't even let me buy a snack when we went on our retreat for church and we were at the store. he always opens all the doors for us and he really respects women. i'll give it to you straight, he's 29 and im 19. he has said before when a group of us when out to eat together that 10 years doesn't matter to him that in "our" culture, we are mexicans he said that it's fine.