Hi all, my name is Destine, I just wanted to know if this seemed a little strange to anyone else: Since January 11th (of this year) I have been having these weird dreams, this is the first one: It was my sweet 16 birthday and a lot of my close friends that I consider family were there, My mom handed me a gift and it was a cell-phone, I thanked my parents because I thought I would never get a new one. I ask them if I can charge it in my room and they said yes. I went into my room, A few minutes later, My dad comes in with this boy (T) and my dad is yelling on top of his lungs that he raped me, And I was a little confused. T's dad came in because he heard all the noise, He asked me dad what was wrong, So he told him what he thought his son did. So, that started a fight between both the dads. I look on the floor and see this snake smiling at me. The 2nd dream happened either in the same week or a few days after this one: I was walking with my family, I was carrying this pretty baby, I continued to walk, The baby turned into a black puppy, the puppy was very cute. I ended up alone in a classroom with my dad. My dad was yelling at me and saying I wouldn't have gotten pregnant if I just listened to him. It was quite confusing. My 3rd dream was that I was sitting in the youth sanctuary in my church, I took out my iPod because my mom was talking to my youth pastor, T comes up and asks if he can sit next to me, My mom sees this in says for him never to go near me again. In my 4th dream: I'm in-line at a store, I can't really tell what kind of store I'm in, but I know it looks familiar, My mom is with me, once we get rung up, the cashier says I look familiar. I told her that I model sometimes and my pictures are on a certain website. She said she saw a picture of me on someone's phone, I was a little confused since none of my friends take pictures of me. The lady took out her phone and said that T sent a photo of me to her, And my mom was furious because T wasn't supposed to have anything to do with me. In my 5th dream: I with my friends having a good time just dancing and eating, and we're all dressed up and we're in this nice restaurant. I see T and his friends but we ignore him, Something happens and we end up leaving and I'm leaving and tears and my mom is mad saying something really cruel about T. I end up at my friends house, I need to get something out of the car, But once I try to get back into the house, this german sheperd blocks me, And starts barking, And than tries to bite me. I end up getitng back into the house though, Just very scared..
What is your relationship with T like in waking life? These dreams seem to be about your parents not approving of you having a relationship with T (or boys in general). Do they have, or do you think they would have, that attitude? The parents in your dream might not be your parents. They could represent a wiser part of your mind. That part of your mind could be trying to tell you that something is wrong.
The parents in my dreams were my parents; I don't really have a relationship with T because my parents don't really approve of him, He has anger issues
I know they are your parents in your dream. I meant that your parents in your dream could symbolize something else in your life. Sometimes when you see someone you know in a dream, the person represents someone or something else in your life. So in a dream, your parents could represent the intelligent, mature part of yourself. Since you say that T has anger issues, it makes sense that your parents don't approve of him, and that there is a part of you that is concerned about his behavior and his potential to be dangerous. The question you need to ask yourself is why he shows up in your dreams so much; why he is important to you.
Oh ok, sorry I thought you meant that they weren't actually my parents! Well, ever since he was rude to me, it really broke my heart when my mom said to him "Your a man of God, I expect more from you" and God told my mom no one ever told him that, That really sadened me beacause he really looked heartbroken. So ever since than I try to pray for him, because it seems to me that he's changing for the worst
I suppose all you can do is pray. It is up to him whether he is going to change or not. You shouldn't put up with someone being rude to you, though.