I met a wonderful guy recently. However, I am very afraid of getting hurt due to widowhood and divorce. He has approached me in a friendly way, sending me texts that are somewhat spiritual and even romantic.

The dream of him was as follows.We were sitting opposite each other in what seemed like an ancient room. He had a cloak on his lap and I felt afraid of it. I felt that if he wrapped it around me, I would lose myself in some dark place.

Suddenly I felt him next to me, he was emanating warmth and he put out his hand to hold mine. His hand was very warm, and filled me with relief and confidence. His warmth and affection seemed so strong.

The next thing I knew I was flying above an old city, like a medieval town, and people were running around in the streets below me. I was afraid it was for a funeral. I woke up feeling happy but in doubt. I seem to be going through some very strong feelings And I do not know if this man will ever be in my life. From the dream, what does this relationship seem to be?

I think the dream is telling you to face your fears. Even though you start out being afraid, you learn that if you allow him to be closer to you, you end up feeling happy.

Flying in your dream has to do with letting go and allowing yourself to be free. In real life, if you tried to fly, you would just fall and hurt or possibly even kill yourself, so flying in a dream has to do with being able to get rid of all your fears and have faith that things will turn out OK.

A funeral has to do with the end of something and also letting go of things so that you can start new things. So the funeral in the dream can have to do with letting go of your fears and concerns from your past experiences so you can move on and be happy.

Thank You

Dear Marcia
Thank you for that answer it made a lot of sense. I am very afraid of him consciously. I feel on some level I do not deserve love or am not ready for it. So I am working on that now. To try and change that. You were very insightful and I am extremely appreciative of your indepth insight. That dream felt very powerful as I can feel and sense it still. Thank you so much. I will have more faith. Jacqueline

Are you afraid of him, as a person, or you afraid of being involved in a relationship with someone? If there is something about him, as an individual, that frightens you, for example, something about his behavior, you should pay attention to your gut instincts.

Hiya

Hiya Marcia no he is not someone to be afraid of but his personality is huge as he is well known. A sort of celebrity figure. I find his presence in my life challenging as a result. My feelings for him are scary Marcia, that is the truth as they have emerged from my shut down, and I am having to face my own lack of confidence. So growth is essential here, but I do feel is coming forwards. Thanks again for your reply.