I had my first child on March 31, 2009. He was fine up until delivery. He asphyxiated (long story and I am trying not to throw blame here...) Shortly after I lost him, I had a dream of a little boy, probably 2 years old, sitting in a high chair, just smiling. Thats all he did throughout the whole dream. Does anyone have any idea why I would have had this dream?

You had this dream because your child died in infancy and therefore is innocent and does not have to pass through judgement. He is in Heaven or will be in Heaven.

Blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted.

Thank you.

You have no idea how much that simple sentence comforted me. Thank you.

I am very sorry about your loss, but glad that you have received some comfort.

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Thank you. There isn't a lot someone can say to make what happened any easier but knowing that he is in a good place certainly helps...I am a Christian, I don't practice perse, but I believe in God, Heaven, Hell....I never understood how it worked if a child died but I feel better knowing that he is with God...