I had this dream on January 18th: It took place in modern time, my ex was my grandparents aid and she was trying to get me to speak to her even going to the point of flashing me. And at the very end before she left we had a brief conversion and she was glad I was talking to her after avoiding her the entire time and I gave her red roses and she left and i then woke up. We broke up 5-6 yrs ago and this is the first time I've had a dream with her in it. We had a bad argument and decided to split ways. I've no talked to her since then and right before Christmas I thought I might of saw her at a red other when I went to visit my grandparents in my former town.

Note: Since this dream I did not have any other dreams with this person in it. I think it was a way for my subconscious to get closure. Next dream below feature another female friend of mine and not my ex.

I had these two dreams on January 25. Dream 1: Took place in New York City where she lives, I was walking down the street. I was walking down the street and I see this girl walk across the street and walk by me. She stood out, as i thought I saw a friend or someone who looks like them as they walked by me in a crowd, we did not Acknowledged each other and I look back to see if it was her. Then I woke up. Then fell into a peaceful sleep with my mind clear. Dream 2: In the dream that followed this one, I was at a wedding, I saw the sign but could not remember the names of the bride and groom. I was asked to be the ring bearer for the wedding. I originally detested being the ring bearer but ultimately accept the responsibility of being ring bearer. As far as i know my friend/that girl previous dream was NOT there. I did not dream the beginning of the wedding as they walked down the aisle. My dream appeared to be more of last minute preparations on the wedding day. Is it possible that the bride could be that girl since she was already in my subconscious as per the first dream?

A little background for dream 1 and possibly 2 on January 25th, She is the only one of my friends who knows more about my past then even my family. She as for lack of a better term my confidant. My friend thinks she likes me, and when we discussed that subject matter she went on to tell me that A. I can only be her friend for the foreseeable future but hopes that is enough and B. Relationships are good friendships with a few added perks. She and myself love having each other as a friend.

Thank you in advance!

Other than seeing your ex after Christmas, is there anything that would have happened to make you think about her between then and when you have the dream?

It seems kind of strange to me that you broke up almost 6 years ago and you feel that you still didn't have closure after all that time.

Is there more to your relationship?

It's hard to say what the first dream on January 25 means. It is so short, it could just be something that happened during the day reminded you of this girl.

I think the fact that you are the ring bearer in the dream suggests that you are not ready to take part in something - you aren't actually getting married yourself in the dream. It's interesting that you talk about the responsibility of being a ring bearer when that is nothing compared to the responsbility of marriage.

It's your dream, created by your mind, so the bride can't be anyone other than who you think she is.

The fact that my subconscious wanted closure was just a hypothesis. We did have a nasty breakup where the day we broke up, we severed immediately all contact. Is it possible that she was in the dream because for the first time in 6 years I've thought about her; my first girlfriend. I was and have been happy with out her, I personally thought I need no closure so that's why I threw out the possible closure bit.

To the first dream on January 25th, nothing that happened in the past week of that event reminded me of someone walking by And my self thinking it was my friend. That did not even happen when I last visited that city in october. Could I be telling me I found out of all the many people the one or one whom is like what my true desire is?

I thought in the first dream you just glanced at this girl. How do you think that tells you what your true desire is, since you don't talk to this girl and don't find out anything about her?

I saw this person and I had one of those moments where you have to to a double take where you can't believe it. I did glance at her when she walked by, then I had to look back to to double check that's who I thought it was. If it truly was the person I think it was, then it was my friend. With this person, they are a great friend and I love having them as a friend, I can truly be myself with the person . My hunch is that could my desire be her. I'll Reiterate the last sentence is Could It be telling me that I found out of all the people the one or one whom is most like what my true desire is?

The only way you can find out if someone is your true desire is by getting to know them well in real life.