Over the last couple of days I had such intense dreams that I couldn't get them off my mind ever since. I'm not quite sure whether there is any direct connection between these two, but both of them involved ghosts.

First dream:
I'm sleeping in my folks bedroom for some reason, with a girl, I couldn't recall girl's face. The next thing I can remember myself waking up in the dream, the girl next to me was asleep with her head in the pillow. I can hear someone going up the stairs, I reach to the lights switch, but its not working. Then I see a ghost,a lady with long dark hair, going up the stairs. The minute she reached the 2nd floor, she ran towards us and jumped inside the girl next to me. I remember freaking out, trying to wake her, but she wouldn't wake up. Eventually, I wake up. Couldn't fall asleep afterwards.

The 2nd dream is even more intense.
My grandfather who passed quite some time ago was a major part of the dream. Just for reference, my grandpa and I used to be like best friends.

So the dream begins like this. Someone in the dream, I cant exactly recall who, tells me that my grandpa is alive, and he is going to be waiting for me at certain location. So, then, I stand there, and approximately 500 feet away I can see my grandpa, wearing his favorite clothes. I was standing by some sort of apartment building. Next to the building there was a store. I can clearly remember smiling at my grandpa, while he was walking towards my direction. However, he didn't directly come to me, he came towards one of the store windows, and as I came to him he started peeing. The first thing he said was, I didn't attempt to jump, I was pushed and he continued to pee. Just for reference: He died from old age, natural causes.
The next thing I recall us in the elevator, going up. Apparently, we were going up to my apartment. He repeatedly was saying that he didn't jump, but some Albanian guy pushed him. Anyway, as we walked into my apartment, there was a girl in there, I can't remember if it was my gf or my older sister. Also, there was a little child with us, she was maybe 5 years old.

Then, I can remember door bell sound, the same sound I have in my current house. It sounded like someone repeatedly was playing with it. After that, my grandpa said to me to go close the door, because they're coming. He didn't explain who he meant by they. So, I walk towards the door, and its half way open, I then close it. I clearly remember the feeling of fear. As I walk back into the room, my grandpa instructed me to create a circle around me, he said they wont touch me inside the circle. So, we start building these circles, with random things. I can remember seeing myself inside a circle made of off-white small rocks. Finally, I see myself and the child inside a bigger circle, but was more like a round barricade. The walls were covered with cartons, broken boxes, and some other material. The barricade seemed very reliable. There were pillows inside as well. The girl (my sister or my gf) were outside of the barricade. And throughout the dream my grandpa repeatedly was saying that he didn't jump, instead someone pushed him.

I crave for explanation, please, please ,please give me some sort of guidance on this.

I rarely dream, but last few nights, I kept waking up in horror.

Sincerely,,
Eugene

I would say that in the first dream the girl represents something about yourself. Since she is female, it could have to do with your emotions or your intuition. I think the part where she is possessed by the ghost has to do with you being afraid about something of you changing, and you not being able to control it.

It's very common to dream that you find out that someone close to you who is died is really still alive. This is because they live on in your memory and it's confusing to your unconscious.

Peeing would have to do with you releasing stress or negative emotions. - Even though your grandpa is peeing in the dream, it's your dream so about you.

I think your grandpa's statements about being pushed don't have to do with being physically pushed, but about being forced to do something against his (or your) will. It could be that you have done something or chose something because you thought you wanted to do it, but now your unconscious is telling you that underneath, it's not really want you wanted.

I think the small girl has to do with innocence and vulnerability.

Your grandfather in the dream seems to represent himself but also the archetype of the wise old man. He seems to represent something inside you that wants to protect you and keep you safe from danger. Since the dream seems to have to do with not having control (being pushed), the "they" that are coming could represent negative thoughts, memories and behaviors that you are trying to repress.

This could also be related to grief for your grandfather, or grief for anything in general, because grieving involves repressing a lot of difficult thoughts.

could've any of this has to do with my upcoming long term trip to another country?

Thanks for breaking it down to me, Marcia

Why are you traveling to another country? What emotions do thinking about the trip bring out in you?

Traveling because I'm going back to potentially propose to my gf. We met there, then she lived with me in US, things between us didn't go as smooth as we thought they would. Although we remained a couple, unfortunately she had to leave. Prior to her departure i promised that I would come to her as soon as I can. Little over 2 months has passed since she left. All this time our relationship has been rocky, but I still feel like she is the one for me, therefore the decision to travel is inevitable. Thus,I saw my grandpa and my mother together in one of my dreams about a month ago, and my grandpa were telling me to get married! I'm not quite sure if there is any connection between these dreams, but after the 2nd time that I saw my grandpa, I became a little superstitious. (Just for ref: I'm not really religious nor superstitious type of guy ) My grandpa had passed little over four years ago, and truthfully, I can't recall the last time having him in my dreams just until last month, when he told me that I should get married. And two nights ago was the 2nd time him and I met.

In regards to emotions, the whole trip somewhat freaks me out. The fact that I'd facing the unknown scares me the most. After everything that had happened, at this point, I;m just not sure what would happen next between her and I, and whether I'm making a right decision after-all. I'm sort of beginning to doubt my actions.

I already quit my job in order to make this trip possible.

I believe in this little saying, no matter what is being done, its for the best of it.