In my dream, I was sleeping in bed (not my own bed) but somewhere else. The next thing I know a stranger girl walks in and lies next to me. I was awaked by that, I immediately got up, feeling furious and pushed her out of the door that lead outside the apartment building and went back to bed. The following thing that I remember sitting at the table with my current girlfriend and some other people I was friendly with, I can barely recall their faces. With laughter, I shouted, you guys wouldn't believe what had happened to me last night. So I began telling the story, and then my girlfriends interrupt and continue on with the story. I can’t recall her exact words; but I can certainly remember a strong feeling how proud my girlfriend felt. She said something like he threw the girl out of the door. Right after that I remember feeling that there was a bed right across from mine where she was laying facing the wall, then I realized that she witnessed everything for herself. Her last words I remember, "I came home late from work, did not want to wake you up". Also, a week prior, I had a dream where I was back together with my ex, whom I dated over 9 years ago. We laughing, I felt a strong connection between us. The weirdest thing that my current girlfriend was there. She was hanging out with us, watching us make out etc... I can recall having a a very passive feeling towards my current gf. Can these two dreams be somehow related? I would appreciate any possible explanation?
It sounds like the strange girl might represent some conflict in your relationship with your current girlfriend. The dream where you are making out with your ex while your current girlfriend is there could have to do with your needing to reconcile different aspects of your life. How did your girlfriend react when you were with your ex? Did she seem angry or was she accepting?
She seemed perfectly ok with it, also she seemed almost like a stranger to me. As I think about it now, it doesn't seem like she cared, it was almost like we had never met before.
The fact that she didn't care could mean that you have a conflict in your life or your relationship with her and your unconscious is telling you (or hoping that) it isn't really such a big deal.