I had a dream. A dream with my ex who is now my friend. I couldn't play the trumpet and got frustrated so I asked him to show me. Instead he kissed me. Although I wanted to push him away I didn't. Because I missed it all too much. I then tried to play and it worked. I felt this pressure go off of me as if wieghts had been lifted from my self. I hugged him and yet again he did the same. We went to a restaurant and as helifted me up and stole another customer's drink he was about to say something. But I woke up. now..this friend of mine had left because i moved..at times when i still visit him we acts as if this break up never happened. although i have stopped him a couple of times. Just curios on what this dream could mean edit: sorry for posting this in the wrong forum...new here
It sounds like you feel that when you are together things work better for you. I'm thinking of the corny phrase "make beautiful music together". His stealing the other customer's drink makes me think of him acting like you haven't broken up even though you have - he is acting like something is his (a romantic relationship with you) when it isn't. Is the only reason that you broke up because you moved or were there other problems in your relationship? Was the breakup your choice, his, or was it mutual?
It was because I had moved and he said that he found his own personality is in the way. But the break up was mutual. If one of us had strongly opposed it then it would of never happened. and thanks for your words!